Hi! I'm Kat. Let's get the deal beakers out of the way, yeah?

I'm not looking for anyone over 40. I know age gaps are very common and I don't mind them, but they're not my kink.

I'm polyamorous! If that's not your thing, totally fair, we're just not compatible. For people in the know, I do nonhierarchy parallel (typically identify as a relationship anarchist)

I'm a feminist!

I'm plus size!

I'm nerdy!

I'm a VERY experienced and not interested in having to teach my partner!

I'm ONLY looking for a d-type. I am a switch, but I do not like to switch in relationships.

I'm very passionate about kink education, communication, and introspection. If you say you're looking for an m/s dynamic, I will ask what the difference between m/s and d/s is for you. I will ask followup questions!

Now that there's like 3 of you left, let's move on to

About Me (vanilla edition)

I work in Healthcare and I'm trying to learn software development (I'm not great without a set schedule) with the hopes of one day moving into that field! I'm a nerd of all flavors. Anime, d&d, comics, cosplay, books, movies, tv shows, fanfiction I'm into all of it. Well, except larping.

I currently live in an apartment with my cat. I've only recently moved, so I'm still unpacking stuff. I love it though and I'm so thrilled to have my own space.

I work evenings with weekends off and I love it.

I was a dancer for a long time and I really want to get back into it. I did aerial pole as well and I'd love to get a pole for my new place!

As I said, introspection is very important to me. Clarity is a big value in my life. I like to understand why things are the way that they are. Because of this, I can give extremely detailed breakdowns of my thoughts and feelings on something as well as why I had those reactions. Communication is important and I want clarity in my communication. If I have an issue, I will bring it up. I expect the same of my partners.

Now onto the fun stuff

About me (kinky)

I'm looking for ABDL humiliation. I love the mortification of being a fully functional adult woman who is "forced" to be a dumb diaper baby. That is my fetish and what I want to do in this relationship.

I'm not really out about my ABDL kink. I'm fine talking about being beaten or tied up, but ABDL has a weird shame for me. Because of this, I don't really talk about it and I'm only now starting to be more open about it online.

I have tons of other kinks, but they're something that I would only want to do if we're in an established dynamic and we branch into other headspaces.

I'm very experienced in kink and I want a partner who is as well. I don't want to have to explain what RACK is or frenzy.

I will ask your experience with kink; are you involved in your local community, what have your past dynamics been like, what's your experience with humiliation and abdl? So please be ready to be interrogated.

In terms of dynamic style, I'm looking for something a bit more serious. My power exchange dynamics are typically 24/7. They build up to the level of power given, but it is what I'm looking for.

About You!

So be, probably between 23-40. I usually prefer my top to be older, but if you've got a ton of experience it's no biggie.

I prefer you be taller than me (I'm 5'9") but it's not a requirement. I just like being physically overpowered and height definitely helps with that.

I need you to have a nice voice. Doesn't need to be drool worthy, but I'm very auditory sensitive. I will prefer to do phone calls and if you're not down with that, we're not compatible.

Be experienced! That's pretty self explanatory.

Please be interesting to talk to. I cannot single handedly carry the conversation, I don't have much upper body strength.

Ask questions! I have a very detailed road map of how to humiliate and embarrass me, you just gotta ask!

This was a bit of a long ad, so please give me a long opening message. Let me know who you are, your experience, your interests, all that fun jazz.

Autobots, roll out!