Warning ⚠️ This is gonna be long ⚠️

Hi hi, I'm Katrina!

I'm a very experienced sub looking for a relationship. I'm flexible on the kind of relationship, casual play partners all the way to 24/7 TPE. I'm fine with long distance/online or something local (although I'm a bit shy and I won't want to meet up right away).

Let's get down to the nitty gritty.

I'm poly! My preferred style is non hierarchical parallel (if you don't know what any of that means, that's fine. Terminology is funky). Yes, I have other partners, you can meet them if you want. No, I don't care if you have other partners, I can meet them if you want. I can roll with kitchen table, it just has to be a good situation.

I'm plus size and 5'9" and I love my body. If that's not your thing, keep it moving! I have posted some pictures recently, in diapers and without, see feel free to take a look

I'm not going to tolerate conservatives or the mindset. If you're transphobic, homophobic, or racist keep it moving! If you are happy about Roe v Wade being overturned, keep it moving! If you're not a feminist, keep it moving!

Please be over 22 and under 40. I'm putting this near the top of the post because I really don't want to waste your time. I begin to feel uncomfortable with too large of an age gap. And if you're under 22, it's kinda difficult to have a ton of experience (not to say impossible, but unlikely) and I need an experienced partner.

Okay. With those major deal-breakers out of the way, let's break down my kink stuff.

I'm a switch, professional kink educator, and prodom. I'm involved in my local community (less so with covid) and I LOVE it. My go to recommendation for people wanting to learn is to get involved in their local community. I am a leatherwoman and I'm currently a prospect for a local leather club. I run a local rope group and I'm writing a book on brats.

Speaking of.... I'm a brat. I'm excellent at it (if I do say so myself) and I can do my hour long class on ethical bratting for you if you'd like.

Now onto the juicy bit.

DDlg and ABDL are two of my major kinks and really the major thing I'm looking for with a new partner. Buuuuut I'm a bit of a freak about it.

Humiliation is my fetish. This manifests in a lot of different ways, including the humiliation of being an adult woman being treated like a helpless little baby.

It's really where my kink stems from, I love the humiliation aspect, the embarrassment, I'm also extremely easy to embarrass. Certain words I can't even say without blushing!

Now I know what you're thinking. Kat, if you're so involved in your local community, why are you looking in reddit and that's a great question, inner monologue. The issue is that I'm kinda extremely ashamed of the abdl/ddlg kink. I have a ton of shame (not the good kind) mixed with it and I don't want others to know about it. My exes know and some very close friends and that's kinda it. I don't talk about it with others ever.

Not entirely sure why this is. I'm fine talking about being beaten or tied up, but I just can't discuss this kink with others.

Thus, me seeking things on reddit.

Another major kink is feeling overpowered. Physically or mentally. It's one of the main reasons I brat. I love fighting as hard as I can and still losing. I want to feel like I have no choice.

I have so many many other kinks that I'm usually down to indulge in depending on my headspace. I'm into pain, protocol, primal, alliteration, anal, fire, tease & denial, orgasm control, cnc, hypnosis, and so so much more

I'm out to my family as bi, poly, and kinky as well. I have a fetlife that I'm more than happy to share once I'm comfortable with you.

Vanilla me!

I work in Healthcare and I have my own place. I'm a huge nerd. Cosplay, manga, books, video games, board games, d&d, and all the tv shows/ movies. Specifically scary movies. I'm attempting to learn software development as well.

I'm an extremely passionate person and I can rant about my favorite current interest for hours.

I like voice calls. I have a thing for a nice voice and it hits me so much harder to hear certain things out loud. Plus, stuff can get so easily misconstrued via text. I'd say I'm fine with cam stuff, it's just a lot more effort so I wouldn't want to do it all the time.

I'm very very open about pretty much anything. The deep stuff, the useless stuff, my past, my goals, whatever. I'd say AMA, but certain privacy things like where I live are gonna take a bit to share.

You!

I'd prefer a partner who is taller than me and has a nice voice. The height helps me feel dominated. And the voice is just so very very hot.

Please know what you're doing. I don't want to have to explain negotiations or aftercare to you. I really don't want to feel like I'm your teacher.

Not hugely picky on location. I work evenings, but I'm able to text a bit at my job. I'm not an early morning person though, so if that's the only time you'd be available then that'll be an issue.

Please don't send me a "submit to me bby" generic message. I put a lot of effort into this post and I'd hope that would be reciprocated. Treat the opening message like you're run into me at a bookstore or coffee shop and we're striking up conversation.

Autobots, roll out!