My Daddy takes care of me, but... they can only do so much. And they often need attention I simply can't give.

These days are spent just keeping afloat and surviving. We had triad for a little while, but they left abruptly (on good terms, but still). We were very interested in a polycule a few years back, but they ghosted (we still don't know what happened). That hurts. We're sore. Tired. Wanting to do more than just survive. Feeling like we're missing an important part of our Tribe / Family. Not really sure how much forward progress we can make with... just us...

Me - 37/Nonbinary, heavily submissive, babygirl, disabled, Gemini (which means excited Ted Talks)

Life Partner 32/Genderfluid, pansexual, part-time Daddy, part-time babygirl.

We have a life, but clear space for more. That includes a rental/roommates, a vehicle, rent paid, food on the table, and a 6 year old kiddo. Given the current balance, we're destined to just barely stay afloat until.... well.... **gestures** ...everything burns down. We has a doggo, a pair of kitters, lots of friends, and nowhere to go... because we've still got a literal Plague around.

~We take care of ourselves~

We have a very serious focus/concern on the poor state of the World and US. It's not a passing feeling... it's an ACTIVE worry. Yes, it's too big for any one person to fix. No, we don't believe in burying our head in the sand and ignoring it. Want to know WHY I'm worried about things burning down? You can see a post on my profile from a year or two back outlining it in painful detail.

~Keeping up with current events is key to survival~

I'm willing to bet I've got a better zombie apocalypse plan than you. Seriously... I haven't lost yet. Think that can include you? Do some serious soul-searching... are you a Defender, a Builder, Compassionate, but Practical? Self-Awareness is sexy. Can you teach? Be patient? Think about things bigger than just yourself?

Are you looking for somebody who is always there to cuddle? Am disabled, remember... that includes being bed-bound sometimes. Needing an actual caretaker, at least briefly while the pain passes. But it does mean looootttsss of cuddles! How about being hands-on? Skin is the very best thing, and frankly we're generally nude at home. Frustrated with the conundrum of wanting to type something detailed, but not wanting to type it again tomorrow, and the next day... but copy-paste somehow feels.... wrong? Me too. I won't be reposting this anytime soon.

At the end of the day, all we REALLY want is to find shelter. Have a safe home. A regular Game night. Maybe a small plot of land just outside something bigger. Connected... but removed.

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• Interested in Ethically Non-Monogamous, Emotionally Available partners ONLY
• I am Disabled, with chronic pain. This is lifestyle kink, not occasional.
• Both our babygirl sides fit hebephilia and ephebophilia, and NOT any younger
• We are Nonbinary and Genderfluid. That's not USUALLY a good match for a cis Male.
• Big Yes - Persuasive/Coercive Daddy, Daily Messaging, Words of Praise, Consensual Non-Consent, Top/Dom/Daddy (gender/identity aren't important), Local is a MASSIVE plus
• Big No - Strictly Casual, Narrow World View, Rape, Hitting, Jealousy, Ghosting, Porn Addiction, Sharing Infant/Forced/Violent porn or fantasies
  

There's a babygirl here, wishing they had cuddles, somebody to text, somebody to remind them to look on the bright side, and to send love and attention to.

.... it's not supposed to be this difficult...... we just want headpats, dammit....