Hi! My name is Mich and I’m a switch within the bdsm community. I tend to lean more towards the little/middle side, but also enjoy being a cg. I am looking for a cg/little/switch, preferably near me, but I am open to long distance if things work out. I would eventually like to be in person though.

As stated in my title I am nonbinary and use he/they pronouns. I expect anyone who responds to be respectful of this. I am also queer, so I am open to a partner of any gender. In addition to this, I am poly and I have a partner currently, so it is very important that those who respond be okay with a non-monogamous relationship. I do date separately from my partner though so this would purely be a cg/l dynamic with just me. I do prefer you be open to meeting/associating with my partner though, since I do live with him.

Outside of bdsm my hobbies are drawing/painting, coloring, reading, shopping, and playing board games. I also really like Asian food, sweets/candy, crystals, music, stuffed animals, and cats.

As a cg I am good at creating structure for my little. I believe rules are a great tool for helping one achieve their personal goals. I tend to work better with more obedient littles, but don’t let that stop you if you are a bit of a brat.

As a little/middle I still very much enjoy structure and tend to be pretty independent. That’s not to say that I can’t be clingy though as I do very much enjoy attention. I also tend to be a pretty obedient little myself.

Overall, I am looking for someone who is first and foremost a friend. I prefer people who are looking to support each other and their goals in a relationship. Being open minded is also extremely important to me. As for age I prefer you be 35 or under. I would like to meet someone nearby, but if you happen to be farther away from me I would like to be able to text as well as call/video chat to keep in touch when we cannot see each other in person.

I don’t really have a preference for physical looks, since I find all kinds of different people attractive. I also want to mention that health problems, whether mental or physical, is not a deterrent for me. I have chronic pain and various mental health disorders myself so I am not one to judge. I think as long as we are working to better ourselves as people there should be no issue.

If any of this happened to interest you feel free to send me a message anytime!

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