WARNING: Stern Daddy mode is ON

Do not start talking to me if you're just going to ghost. It is entirely rude and all too common. It's a sad reflection of a lack of common courtesy when the common thread for most littles is about abandonment issues. Also, some of the language being used by some makes me want to wash your mouth out with soap. It is very unbecoming of a little to talk like that!

Stern Daddy mode is OFF

I am married - not hiding it. She knows and supports my interest in what I seek. Our marriage is rock solid and we have dated women together as a married couple.

I have a successful career. A nice home. We aren't struggling or dealing with hardships. But I find myself feeling like something is missing in my life. I never had kids. Perhaps that was a selfish choice of mine, but she had a child and didn't feel the need to have any more. Now I feel that I've missed out on something important in life. I feel a void that needs filled. To feel the unconditional innocent love, the responsibility of having someone depend on me for everything, the desire to pass on my knowledge and experiences, the need to protect and care.

But I also want a sexual relationship as I can be a total perv. I want someone who eagerly wants to play in the most dirty and depraved ways our imaginations can devise (no pain, damage, illegal, or anything hurtful). A DDlg relationship seems to fit what I seek. I want someone I can keep in diapers 24/7. Perhaps making that someone wear bondage mittens to increase her need for help. Someone that wants to just please. But I'm not enamored with the AB of ABDL. I don't get off on baby talk, pacifiers, bottles and the like. Perhaps I like more of the forced regression or maybe diaper bondage aspect.

Here's the part that makes it really difficult to find someone. My wife is very bisexual and loves being with women emotionally and sexually, but she isn't into diapers. She wants an adult relationship with whoever we get involved with. So we need someone that's interested in us both, loves being cared for in diapers with me, and can have an adult female to female relationship with my wife where we all live as a blended family.

And just because we really like to make things impossible, we're not really looking for long distance. We want to meet you IRL so we know you're real and who you say you are. We've been catfished in the past and are really cautious about blindly trusting someone. She will not even consider getting to know someone online as she's been hurt too many times in the past by people playing games - which is why IRL is a requirement.

We want to spend time with you doing non-kinky things like going on vacations (Orlando theme parks are a top destination), weekend getaways, local festivals, riding our bicycles on the various bike paths around Columbus, catching a broadway show that's in town that interests us, etc. We love to cook, so someone with a passion for food would be a great common interest.