oh, no! the queen (me, of course) has been searching high and low for her missing princess! the kingdom is so lonely without her sunshine and sparkles to brighten the palace. wherever could she be?

okay, okay, fairy tales aside, hi! I'm a super soft mommy and caregiver, and I have been ever-so-patiently waiting for the foot that fits my glass slipper. this connection means so much to me, I am languishing without it, but it has to be just right, and I know my perfect princess would feel exactly the same way. I know she's waiting for me just the same way I'm waiting for her.

before you read any further, please note that I'm poly (ENM) and partnered. I don't have any kind of dynamic with my other partners, and we have interdependent, not codependent, lives. you would not be competing with them for love and attention. mommy would be all yours. I appreciate commitment and while yes, I am poly, I am ultimately looking for a long-term, committed relationship.

I'm currently a house wife, and I just finished an undergraduate degree and have plans to go back to school soon. I spend my days homemaking, reading, learning new languages, journaling, working out, and am always striving to become a better version of myself every day. I'm plus sized, curvy and soft and (in my humble opinion) rather pretty, and I always smell amazing. also I'm a woman of color, if that matters.

anyway, as a mommy and caregiver, I can be very, very soft and gentle, but I can also be very strict. I believe that each caregiver/little relationship is unique, and we should work together to figure out what works for us. that being said, I get a lot of enjoyment out of giving rules that support and correct behavior that's harmful or not serving you. I have very strong opinions about these things, and I work hard to constantly grow and develop, and I want to help my little one to do that, too.

I don't have any interest in pet play of any kind.

I can be very possessive and my instincts err on the side of controlling, but I'd like to think I'm healed enough to keep those darker tendencies from negatively affecting others. that being said, if that sort of behavior feels affirming to you, let me assure you I can certainly provide a firm hand and plenty of accountability.

also important to note, I'm neurodivergent, so I understand mental health struggles. because of my neurodivergency, I'm very direct and can be somewhat stern at times, but it always comes from a place of love and warmth. you can ask me anything or talk to me about anything, and there will never be judgment of any kind.

as for the dynamic itself, online, I love enforcing rules and diaper discipline, establishing privileges, punishments and rewards, picking out outfits, maintaining a bedtime routine, bedtime stories, the occasional bit of material spoiling (eventually), and being in charge of your princess parts and other similar kinks. I love little girls that love onesies, cute outfits in general, diapers and pull ups, pacifiers, stuffies, baby bottles, sippy cups, playing with toys, coloring, divided plates, frilly socks... that sort of thing!

I also want to just be around to offer support and guidance and love whenever needed or wanted. I like checking in every morning, I like knowing where you're going, when you plan on getting back, and similar sorts of communication.

it would be great if we could share some online hobbies like gaming or watching TV or movies together, so we can have something to do together upon occasion, especially if we're only online. I play a lot of different genres of games so I'm sure we could find something that appeals to both of us.

in person, I love very typical caregiving things. I adore cooking and baking, feeding by hand and with bottles, helping you get dressed, doing your hair and putting your shoes on, and giving baths. I also really love dry nursing. also: I love planning outings! it's been a longtime dream of mine to have a fancy tea party with my little girl, and I would adore planning something special for Easter, Christmas, Valentine's Day and other holidays to make sure you feel little and special. I'm very passionate about recreating the magic of childhood for my little one, and want someone who wants that from me.

I'm very much a top and I love pillow princesses. ABDL and Cg/l are sexual and romantic to me, but the SFW aspects are just as, if not more, important.

I'm willing to pursue a LDR, but I have a strong preference for people living in north america because assuming all goes well, I would very much like to one day meet and play together in person. online dynamics are very satisfying to me, but I know if I fall for someone, I'll want to meet them eventually.

my ideal partner is feminine, shy, maybe a little bookish, loves looking pretty for her mommy, loves compliments and praise and head pats, is looking for something serious and knows what she wants, is aware of the world around us, and appreciates a sensual, good life and wants to actively seek that out. she would at least be in her 20s, older than me is fine, too, though closer to my age is preferable. she could be any size, any ethnicity, any background. I have no preference with regards to cis or trans women, but I do have a slight preference for curvy figures and feminine features.

my vanilla self is very romantic, interested in a number of topics from politics and physics to cooking and hosting. I've been a hellenistic polytheistic witch for many years, if a lazy one. I read (mostly nonfiction), write, and play video games. I love horror movies, reality TV and all genres of music. I love a good cocktail or rolling up, but I don't make it a personality trait. it can take me a couple weeks to truly warm up to someone, but once I do I highly value an intense, warm, consistent connection.

please have read all of this before you reach out! I'm very chatty and long-winded, and if you're not going to enjoy reading all of this, you probably won't enjoy having me as your mommy very much.

and last but not least, please, please, please do not call me mommy without asking. you can call me miss or ma'am if you like, but I don't like people calling me mommy without having first discussed our dynamic and established some level of commitment. I hate enforcing this boundary, so please don't put me in a position where I feel forced to do so!

if you read this novel and feel like this all sounds good to you, then I'm eagerly looking forward to hearing from you, and you definitely deserve a gold star.