Stuffies, Snacks and Side Quests, currently looking for a player two. (Lame right?)

Hai~ I’m your typical nerdy 34 year old who adores all things cute, currently living in Japan (formerly East Coast, USA) looking for a long term, meaningful relationship with an emphasis on the cgl dynamic where care, fun and understanding are just as important as our connection. 

Some stuff about me:

I’m a bit socially anxious, and a whole lot of sarcasm with a love for cozy nights in and the occasional exciting new adventures. I have an alternative aesthetic with lots of tattoos, wild colored hair and my septum pierced, but my favorite color is pink and my tattoos are mostly anime and video game inspired. I am smol (4’10) but extremely sassy. I love co-op and multiplayer games (video/tcg/ttrpg/board), discord movie dates and being creative in multiple ways. I have a love of exploring new hobbies, cause you can never have enough, so I’d love for someone that can introduce me to their passions and interests. I’m working on my mental and physical health after beating Cancer last year, it’s slow but steady progress. I have one child and no pets currently (probably gonna get a cat soon).

My little space:

My everyday personality is very much ‘little’ in my interests and preferences. I usually am a very stressed out, anxious and always on top of things person so my little space is like my vacation away from all those responsibilities where I can finally relax and breathe. I’m a fan of rules, rewards, punishments, and general tasks (like finding cute coloring pages and activities to do for you), bedtime stories, and basically anything we can do together to enjoy the dynamic. CGL is central to my happiness in a relationship, it gives me structure, comfort, and so much emotional fulfillment. I love feeling safe, cared for and cherished, just as much as I enjoy bringing joy to my partner in return. 

Along with a sexual little space, I’m into a wide array of other kinks which can be discussed when we’re both comfortable. 

What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a kind, patient and empathetic Caregiver (and someone who naturally enjoys that role). Who understands the importance of the role and that trust, consistency and communication are vital. Humor, intelligence and experience in the dynamic are an absolute must as well as someone emotionally mature.Someone who knows when to offer comfort, advice or anything in between without being able to be told to. I want someone who will be as obsessed with me as I am with them. Physically I’ve been attracted to a wide range of people but prefer masc presenting humans, with accents (UK and Perth to the front) and either nerdy or alternative aesthetic. Around my age preferably but connection is more important and can sway in either direction. Anywhere in the world, since I want to form a solid connection first and foremost to make sure we’re compatible. I plan to be back in America within a few years, but anything is possible. 

Lets chat~

If anything here resonates with you, send me a message! I do sometimes come off as standoffish as a defense mechanism, and am working on it. Once I feel comfortable and at ease it’s a lot easier for me to open up. Please put effort into your first message, as I’ve probably put too much effort into this post. First impressions matter a lot to me, and it’s hard to come back from it. Tell me your favorite game, or a hobby you’d introduce me to. I’m looking forward to meeting you but please be patient with me!