Greetings! I'll admit it's a little long and I can be fairly verbose, so I do apologize if there's a ton to take in! I'd appreciate it greatly if you got all the way to the end. Otherwise, at least to break the ice - I'd love to know your favorite food!

About

Hi! I'm a 28 year old dude from the VA area, but I've really lived all around the US. It's mostly where I'm at right now! Firstly, I'd like to express that a lot of my focus is about the connection and the foundational elements I have with my partner. With a strong foundation and relationship - kinks can easily be explored judgement free and without reservations! I'd like to provide good communication, consistency, and daily effort into what we're building - hopefully eventually budding into a wonderful partnership. I've been described as a 'service top' or 'pleasure dom'; even if I do have my own sadistic and greedy streaks. I like to believe I'm flexible, but a lot of my partner's preferences, pleasure, and desires for what they'd like out of play are the foremost in my mind. That said, trying here in these spaces - I'd like to find my like-minded person by tossing out the feelers on Reddit!

Physical

I'm about 6'3" and around 170-ish pounds; working in reverse from losing a fair amount of weight. I've got a bit of a "dad bod" and a small amount of looser skin around my stomach. I'm a little sensitive about it, but I figure I should be honest about it considering the drastic weight loss. I'm not super fit, I'm not super buff, I'm some weird fiddle in the middle. At the moment, I'm trying to fit up and gain a little weight and fill out with muscle! Personally, I'd like to fill out a bit more but remain pretty fit.

Extra About

I like movies, laughs, video games, tabletop RPGs, sci-fi, fantasy, and I'm generally a nerd past all the sexual stuff. I watch films, I play video games, and generally just enjoy my free time outside of work when I can. I don't work a TON, but when I do I tend to wear myself out - so I appreciate the time in my own space. I'm naturally a bit of an introvert, but I blab a lot when interest is caught. I'm also a fair bit of a clown and fairly hypersexual. I've often wondered if there was a correlation. I tend to try to keep comedy out of the bedroom, but I do my best to have fun. If it involves giggles and laughs while we're depraved? So be it.

What I'm Searching For

I'm looking for an online-only arrangement to start, and to see where it goes. If we click and suddenly realize we have to cross state lines to enhance our dynamic? Let's discuss that! It's more a preference thing and how I grow my personal comforts. I find that a strong online arrangement preemptively helps a lot more when two people decide to meet, in my experience.  I'm totally flexible on this topic and willing to discuss, though.

Myself, I am primarily looking to explore kinks and other fantasies with a potential partner. I like hearing about what you like and understanding those fantasies; but I also enjoy the contrast of my own kinks, and watching someone share in them and enjoy them as much as I do (and in some cases more)! I suppose in a way, I am both a service top, and one greedy to explore a myriad of kinks and fantasies, finding more about myself and the things I enjoy. I attribute it to the hypersexual bit. I am currently SINGLE, and I am not looking for an arrangement that isn't monogamous if things progress to a point. I can get fairly possessive if things call for it. I'm not particularly picky about age - so long as you are above the age of 18. Though for long-term agreements I'd prefer someone around my age.

In short, I'd like someone who believes love is an action. I'd love to talk to someone who enjoys kink, is actionable, communicative and consistent; and wears that possession, obsession, and clinginess on their sleeve. I'd like my partner in crime, the other person on my wanted poster. I want to share pleasure and pain, tears and laughs! I want someone who wants to cultivate someone lasting with all the kinky trappings that come from an engagement like this.

Kinky Things

I absolutely adore anal, and I love giving tasks to edge or pleasure, while praising upon completion. Denial, praise, and degradation are all healthy loves I don't mind at all. I enjoy wax, casual aspects of footplay, adore body inspections, poses, things of that nature. A big portion of my enjoyment is hearing what you like, want to explore, and guiding you through that experience - making sure you enjoy it as much as possible. It is a varied list of my personal likes that can be discussed even further! Those were what I could think of without typing too much.

Apologies yet again for the novel; but thank you so much for making it to the end. If you've read from the top to the bottom, why don't you also send me your favorite music or artist? Bonus points if you caught both. I hope to hear from you!