hi ♡

i’m jaei/jay (nickname), 23 yrs old and have been wanting to explore the clg dynamic and community again. i’ve dabbled in it in the past but am looking to find someone has similar interests as me to connect, learn, and grow with.

a little about me: i’m an introvert, can be a bit reserved but really start to bloom when i’m around those that i click with and make me feel comfortable. i’m into gaming, doodling, outdoor activities like having picnics, bike riding and watching the sunset. i’m a huge lover of music, astronomy, psychology and enjoy collecting things sanrio and san-x based (mainly plushies).

kink wise: i’m drawn to the nurturing, safe, and playful side of the dynamic but i’m also wanting someone who can take control and lead. i’m wanting to delve deeper into the submissive side of me with someone one can guide and have my best interest in mind while i hone into my desire to please and be vulnerable. i’m not into ageplay, more so just the dynamic. i do partake in some little activities & would be open to sharing them.

what i’m looking for: i’m hoping to connect with someone who is patient, confident but not arrogant, understanding, emotionally intelligent and someone who enjoys the lighthearted side of things but can also provide structure and support when needed. communication is an important part to any type of relationship so it’s crucial for me to find someone who can communicate well.

i know physical attraction is a main component to a connection. i’m 5’7, black and on the chubby side. there’s a picture of me (in bio) if anyone is curious to see. i can’t say i particularly have a type as i’m more personality based.

feel free to message me even if you’re just interested in chatting. i wouldn’t mind having someone within the community to talk to. ♡