Hey everyone!

I’ve been a part of the community for a while, and some of you have become my very good friends. I’m a certified ambitious workaholic, which has kept me from seriously looking for a Little for a few years, but I’m in a place in my life now where I am beginning my search for my forever Little.

I’ll try to keep it brief, as I think learning about someone through conversation is the best part of meeting someone new.

Work: I own a marketing company. Before this has meant wild, unscheduled hours of working, but I’ve finally reached a point that isn’t needed. I work from home, though I do have an office in Philadelphia. I’m not tied down here, I typically travel and work at the same time. Outside of a few weekly calls, my time is flexible and free.

Play: I love to travel. Even when working was the busiest, I’d travel and work from AirBnBs as often as I could. While COVID nipped a lot of my travel plans, I’m excited to continue to see the country, and the world. I hope you’ll want to do the same.

I can also be a homebody. I enjoy games, both video games and tabletop games. I adore fantasy and RPGs, and if there’s a popular anime, I’ve likely seen it. You don’t need to share these interests, but I’d want to occasionally enjoy your hobbies, and I’d hope you do the same with me.

I love playing music. I sing, play drums, and play piano. It’s a huge bonus if you do too, and a willingness to learn would make me just as happy. Singing and dancing is at the heart of us all, and I’d love to explore that with you.

As a Caregiver: I’m empathetic to a detriment, which is why this dynamic suits me perfectly. There is no greater joy I feel than easing someone’s anxiety and stress. Nothing makes me smile more than making someone I care for smile. And nothing hurts me more than someone I love in pain. It’s for those reasons I became a caregiver, to explore a deeper relationship with someone that has singular meaning - to care and to be cared for. Also major heads up - I LOVE to read bedtime stories, you can find some I’ve recorded on my profile. 

I have four main tenets to my caregiving.

Guidance

I have a lot of experience in many areas. Whether it’s a push toward education, business ambition, or just learning a new hobby, if you’re someone who has found a gentle hand guiding them to make learning easier, I want to be that hand. To keep you focused on what’s important, to make sure you end up happy and safe long-term, I want to guide you.

Care

Life is full of surprises, some are wonderful and fun, but many are painful. There are two ways I want to care for you, and they align with medical care too. If you have a bad day, I want to make it all better. Like getting a cut, I’ll be your bandaid. I’ll cover it up, and you’ll forget all about it.

There are also other, deeper wounds. Some injuries require physical therapy, a long, slow process of healing to become well again. We all have wounds like this, and we’ll work together not just to bandage your bad days, but to help you become happy in the long-run. Your wounds are nothing shameful, and together we’ll get them healed.

Discipline

My personal philosophy is that through enough guidance and care, discipline isn’t always needed. However, I also know how a select *some* of you are, and discipline is the other side of the guidance coin that helps push you to where you want to be.

My discipline always depends on the person I’m with, but rest assured that if discipline is what you need, you will find it here.

Spoiling

One of my major love languages is gift giving. It’s simply how it is. It’s okay if you’re shy when accepting gifts, but wanting to spoil my little is basically a requirement for me to feel like I’ve shown my love. I want to surprise you with small gifts, a stuffie, a hairpin I think would look cute on you, or cook you your favorite dinner.

I’m certainly not looking to rush into anything. Distance is not an issue for me if there is a serious connection. It’s incredibly unlikely the person who I will spend my life caring for just happens to live nearby at the time I’m posting this, so please don’t let any distance worry you. If anything about my post has interested you, please feel free to reach out.