Hello there! Thank you opening my post! Down below you will find my About Me, What I am Looking for, What I am Not looking for, BSDM switch roles, and additional information.

About me: * 31 years old; Non-binary (Demi-boy) Black/African American * I have brown eyes; short, black curly hair, stand at 6’ 1”, and am little chub around the tummy * INFJ; Enneagram 9w1, Gemini/Leo/Gemini * Neurodivergent (Autistic & ADHD) * Pan (Pansexual and Panromantic) and AroAce (Greysexual and Greyromantic). For me, attraction being reciprocated and having emotional connections are keys for me to feel attraction. While gender does not matter for me, I have a preference for femme/feminine individuals regardless of gender. * My personal stances on sex and romance are sex-ambivalent, romance-favorable. Politically, I am Sex-Positive. * I work as a success coach in higher education by day helping student achieve their definition of success. * I would consider my self conscientious, growth-minded, compassionate, kind, sensitive, justice-oriented, curious, congenial, and self-aware. * I have many rotating interests. I love to learn a lot and considered a jack-of-many-trades. My special interests include: music, LGBTQ education, Psychology theories (specifically related to personality and strengths psychology) to name a few. * In my free time, I play euphonium and participate in a local community wind band. * I am Ethically Non-Monogamous and consider myself to polycurious, leaning towards Solo Polyamory and non-hierarchical polyamory.

What I am looking for (Relationally): * Gentle and caring relationships that have a strong emotional connection and intimacy. * Uses clear and honest communication * Can work through conflict and disagreements * A soft/gentle mommy willing to help me grow and support my goals, especially embracing my inner child. * A little who would like support in their goals, development, and growth from a developing Soft/gentle Daddy Dom. * Has personal and professional goals working towards sustainable career * Prefer femininity but am open to androgyny and masculine presenting individuals. * Someone preferably nearby in greater Northern Virginia, Maryland or in the D.C. area. Bonus if you are in Reston/Herndon/Loudoun area. * Knows about Cg/l (Caregiver/Little) dynamics, has experience with BDSM and kink,and/or can support me at kink and BDSM community events.

What I am NOT looking for (Relationally): * Casual relationships, hookups, one-night stands, etc. * Findoms
* Someone who expects honorifics or pet names immediately (Safety is a must!) * Someone who drinks, smokes, uses drugs, or marijuana. (We must be Sane) * Someone who does not ask before initiating (Everything MUST be consensual and consent is ongoing because it is sexy!) * Someone who is not willing to meet/chat synchronously either by video chat, voice calls, or in-person; or asynchronously by text message or voice memo * Dishonesty * A little who is looking for complete dependence. I am human too with responsibilities as well. * Wants sexual kink all the time. I am trying to build this into a lifestyle, which means we will need balance.

Little (Middle) Role: * I want to collect more stuffies and Squishmallows (I have two so far) * I am a cuddle/snuggleslut * I am good boy and loved being praised for being one. * I love kisses, gentle doting, and being told I am safe and being nurtured. * Wants to be able to enjoy nostalgic things like 2000s TV shows, movies, video games, and activities from childhood * I love to be silly and recite my favorite lines from my favorite shows. * I can be shy, but want to share my voice with confidence * Loves the springtime when its warm * Very repulsed by yelling, degradation, hitting, or harshness, or roughness of any kind.

Soft/Gentle Daddy Dom Role: * I have never been a Daddy before but desire to be one to a little in need of a Daddy. I have been doing my homework and know the basics. * I believe in helping my little achieve their goals. I do my best to actively listen to what is important to them and what makes them special. I provide gentle, supporting guidance towards their goals. * I want to be a nurturing daddy and love it when my little asks for my help and knows that they can depend on me. * Looking to help support a sweet little. Trust is of the utmost important and I hope I can provide that to them.

Additional Notes: Let’s discuss my fetishes and kinks interests privately. I would like for us connect together to vet and make sure that the experience works for both of us. In-person dates and meet-ups to get to know each other and see if we are a great fit. Please DM/PM me with your general location, age, what spoke out to you in my profile, and your experience with CG/l. As a bonus, share one way you want to grow this year! Hope to talk to you soon!