hello :-)

i am a very independent 26 YO with no real family or sense of home, looking for guidance, love, and support from a capable and dependable older man who knows what i need better than i do.

i've never had any kind of father figure in my life, and i know i've missed out on a lot of things that most people grow up receiving - not just care and attention, but boundaries and rules, too. i get so overwhelmed having to figure out everything on my own, and not having anyone to find solace in giving up control to.

i need a daddy who will walk to me home from work when i finish late at night, who will fix all the little broken things around my house, who will make sure that im eating and getting enough sleep and check in on me after therapy, and correct my attitude when i get too in my head. someone possessive and protective with lots of time and patience and love to give, who can handle all the love that's been stored up inside of me in return.

i am 5'5 with shoulder length brown hair, green eyes, and dimples. i'm poly and non binary (but more of a boy than a girl) so i'm not looking for straight men (or fetishisers!). i like history, politics, and philosophy in all forms, and i'm pretty highly educated so it would be good to be able to connect on an intellectual level (even though im looking to get out of a headspace full of complex thoughts). i am also a very kinky person and that is part of what i'm looking for, but not the main focus. i like being shown off when going out to eat or walking around bookstores with a hand on the back of my neck, but i also want to be taken to new places and get involved in your interests!

ideally i am looking for something in-person, but i'm open to intermittent long distance for anyone who travels a lot. happy to share the specific city i'm in once we've talked a bit. if you're interested, please send me a message telling me a bit about yourself, what you're looking for, and why you think we would be a good fit!