tldr - Gentle, corny, silly Dom with a sadistic side, looking for my forever little to take care of, cherish, and possibly train if needed. I'm in Texas, I prefer in person, but I'm open to online as long as we can eventually meet in person

How to start? I'm a simple Daddy back in Texas after discovering I prefer the hot weather. I do not do well in the snow. I've been a Dom for about 7 year, and I'd like to consider myself a silly, loving, caring Daddy with a sadistic side. Even though I like being sadistic and love being rough, there are limits. That's why there are safe words. Even with all the measures, it doesn't make me less dominant to ask or check. It doesn't make me less dominant to show that I am a human being that is capable of caring for another human being. Not just that but there's also a definite need for aftercare. It's always a must, I never want you crying yourself to sleep because I went too far and you think you're being a low maintenance partner. I don't want you to be afraid I won't show up to your needs, so you pretend to not have any. You should impact a space you're in. It's okay to require things from the people in your life. It will never be too much. With healthy communication, we can talk about the real problems. If I hurt you, I would want to know. There's a difference between a person who hurts you by making a mistake, and a person who hurts you by continuing a pattern. Mistakes can be forgiven. Patterns should be broken.

What I'm looking for is my forever little. To be completely honest, my ideal little would be silly, kind, curious, kinky, and clingy (I like double texts, phone calls, good morning and good night texts, I like knowing someone cares. I like knowing they try) I'm a Dom who needs to feel useful to my little one, I'd like to provide comfort where I can, or solutions when I'm able to. I want a little who can communicate their feelings, capable of saying"I'm willing to work on it" instead of "that's just how I am", and doesn't run away from their problems. Escaping the situation doesn't heal anything, and I'd rather work through it than pretend everything is okay. Honesty is the best policy after all. I'm looking for genuine feelings, genuine honesty, and genuine chemistry. If we have a real connection, I want to get to know you on a deep and personal level. I don't care if you're feeling insecure or you're traumatized. I want you to be yourself around me. I want you to feel comfortable letting your walls down. You shouldn't have to minimize yourself. I want you to feel worthy of unconditional love. Love isn't just the good days and easy, it's the sick days, grumpy days, and sad days too. Even when it gets too difficult, I may not be able to help you through everything, but I can always love you through everything.

I know what I'm looking for is going to take time. I'm willing to put in the time, because this is going to be the little I'm going to take care of and spend the rest of my life with. If we talk and down the line we find out it's not something that can be long term, that's okay. I'd rather start over than wake up 10 years from now, walking on eggshells and realize I'm not happy, miserable, and say I'm going to go out for some milk. I'm not saying I'm not going to hurt you, I'm not perfect. I'm just saying It's impossible not to hurt someone. We can all unconsciously hurt others simply by existing. Whether we're alive or dead, we're going to hurt someone. Getting involved might hurt, but trying not to get involved might hurt too. I'm not looking for perfection, because there is no such thing as perfect. Even the moon isn't perfect, it's full of craters. The sea is incredibly beautiful but salty and dark in depth. The sky is always infinite, but often cloudy. So everything that is beautiful isn't perfect, it's special. Every little is special in their own ways, but I'm looking for my special little. Don't try to be someone else or perfect, be yourself, be free and let's see how everything goes organically. I want to be able to make a positive impact in your life and make you feel loved. Although, I'm still a stranger as of now, so how about you stop reading, send me a message and get to know me. Find out for yourself, and let's see how well we connect. As long as this post is still up, I'm still looking. I hope to hear from you soon.