Hey there, my name is Brittany! It's super weird "advertising" yourself to strangers, but here goes.

I'm recently 30, born and raised in North Carolina, but when my lease is up in 2026, I'd love to move somewhere colder. Maybe North Dakota? My dream is to have my own tiny home or trailer, maybe even paint it pink. I don't have many aspirations, but I do want to build a happy little life for myself. I want to live childfree and simply, finding and indulging in things that bring me joy. I don't expect to find someone to share this life with, but I leave wiggle room in my heart for the possibility.

I've never been in a "real" relationship before because I'm just pessimistic about the existence of love in general. Also, being in a relationship wasn't something that was super important to me, especially because of the depression rut I've been in throughout my twenties. However, having just turned 30 and this New Year being a nice, rounded 2025- I want to make some changes to better myself, and putting myself out there, opening myself up to loving and being loved, is a major step.

I have 2 tortoiseshell cats named Val & Charlee (after Tiffany Valentine & Charles Lee Ray), plus, I've fostered & TNR'd many kitties. Be warned, though, if you ask about them, I'll probably never shut up. Bonus- you'll get so many kitty pics. I'd love to foster again, someday, when I have my own place and a spare room for it. I'd also love to have a fenced-in backyard with a wire net roof, with shelters for ferals, so they have a safe place to live, and I'll have my own little community of kitties.

My idea partner is hard to put into words, but above all, they would be kind to others. A motto I live by is "do whatever the fuck you want, just don't hurt others". Anyone, from a garbage man to the President should receive the same amount of respect, in my opinion. At my job, for example, I try to learn and remember people's names. I take pride in being perceived as reliable, friendly, and helpful by others. I just want to be a decent person and I would need someone who feels the same.

Beyond that, I have an interest in a DDlg dynamic, but the core of it is feeling emotionally safe. Also, feeling free to be my complete self, without judgement or fear of abandonment. I'm not into sippy cups, diapers, or pacifiers. For me, it's about having a strong, loving, and dependable man in my life. The cat to my mouse. I'm a picky girl who longs for the right guy to sweep her off her spoiled, little feet. A doting Daddy wrapped around my finger sounds perfect to me.

Now for the more superficial personal preferences. I am attracted to guys with a thicker/larger body type. I, myself, am plus-sized and I will never be, nor want to be, skinny. I tend to favor brunettes, scruff/short beards, short/average height, with bonus points for stretched ears and/or tattoos. Of course, this stuff is very last on the list and I have always said if my soulmate walked up to me and was purple with a unicorn horn & elephant ears, I wouldn't care in the least. Love is the goal.

I'm definitely not looking to meet up with anyone immediately, but I am open to talking to anyone from anywhere, as long as: you are my age or older, our time zones aren't so different as to limit our communication, and we click on a natural level! Chemistry and compatibility are so important for me. If you read all of this and are interested in the possibility of sending little love letters, then I look forward to hearing from you! And to everyone else posting- you're brave as hell! Good luck!