Hello there!

fair warning this is a long and in-depth description.

Are you a needy little sub in search of Dom to give you the attention, and discipline that you need?

Have you always needed an intellectual connection more than a physical one? Just needed to feel like you're on the same wavelength as your parner before everything else? Enjoy more psychological / darker kinks that you generally feel like you can't share very often? Keep reading.

I’m looking for a friend who has their life in order but missing that person who lets them be their authentic self. Their desire and need to be under someone, to know that someone wants to make them feel heard, cared for and sore.

I'm looking for a complex dynamic where on one end it's kinky and depraved, more than the usual. And on the other end it's sweet and tender, more than the usual. I not only think that the two can coexist. I also think they add to the experience. I suppose it's also vital that we keep the universe in balance.

So, if you feel like

• you are in need of a Dom in your life, to use you like the slut that you are, and explore you in everyway possible

• you want/need some structure and Discipline in your life, with rules and tasks

• you crave for some attention and care, and someone to talk to you about your days and your daily struggles.

• you need a firm hand to be there to choke you when you're being your slutty self and pin you down with your ass eagerly perked up waiting to be spanked and turned red.

Then I encourage you to read further!

I enjoy conversations, and I love a sub that understands the importance of communication! Communication is the corner stone to having a safe and balanced dynamic. I enjoy nothing more than someone who knows how to express their needs and desire in an articulate but also submissive manner! Ahh, you have my heart already.

As for the non sexual side of things, a bit about me.

Physically - I'm 25, single, tattooed, dark jet black hair, dark brown eyes, active/athletic (5'8/~170 lbs), booster vaccinated, non-smoker, clean/DDF. Happy to verify each other with photos early on.

I've been described as playful, sadistic, understanding, communicative, honest, creative, mature, witty, curious, easy to talk to, driven, patient, open-minded...and a lot more. My love languages tend to be quality time, physical touch, and words of affirmation.

Part homebody, part social. I've got a pretty eclectic assortment of interests, including: TV/film (almost any genre), Fitness Nerd, music (I’m a sucker for RnB and DnB), art, games, reading/writing (tied to my job), health (mental physical therapy), cooking and baking, investment, anything combustion powered and business. we share a few interests already.

Submission and D/s are not mutually exclusive from having agency in life. In fact, they're complimentary. I'm looking for someone who considers herself passionate/driven/ambitious (whatever that means to you) - but also dreams of relinquishing control in the right hands. Someone craving to be with a trusted partner who will challenge her, structure her and help her succeed in everything she desires in life through the care, safety, structure, pleasure, discipline of a holistic D/s dynamic... This lifestyle is meant to make us be the best version of ourselves for each other, so shall We?

My ideal partner has the same qualities that I bring: loves to explore/learn/try new things, active/takes care of her physical mental health, has goals, communicative, empathetic, giving, loyal, honest, kinky, emotionally available, not looking for a "sugar daddy", and serious about finding a Dom partner.

Experience - I'm welcoming of all as I've been in the lifestyle for the past 4 years. In that time, I've had D/s relationships from irl to online of different degrees (including DDlg, TPE, M/s, low/mid/high protocol) which have led me to narrow down what I need and look for, hence this post. I'm an open book and always happy to answer anything on your mind. If you're curious and inquisitive, we're probably a perfect match already!

D/s dynamic - As I mentioned above, I promise to provide a nurturing but exhilarating, sweet yet firm, dominant but respectful and at times Masochistic. The one constant is that I'm big on communication and care, making our relationship not just a safe-space but something unique to us. My partner is a priority for me, just as I want to be for her. That means I would like to chat regularly and spend time together since this is a relationship. I'm also a believer in (negotiated) structure and rules beyond the bedroom. Each dynamic is unique so it's not a one-size-fits-all. Obviously nothing happens until we've established clear connection, consent, and mutual respect. Much more to discuss together.

My hard limits - ABDL/diapers, blood, permanent modifications, scarring and scat.

My kinks - Include impact play of all kinds, hypnosis, bondage/shibari, sensation play, orgasm control/edging, some humiliation/degradation, pet-play, praise, service, training/tasks/protocols, anal, toy play, breath play, wax play, among others...

With the effort presented I’m expecting the same energy, consider it my primary vetting strategy. Someone topics to start would be about yourself, interests, dynamics, hard limits for you, etc.

With that, I’ve given a much but in-depth glimpse of what I want to offer. If you read this far and felt those pangs/sparks/yearns, take that step and let’s see where it goes. Waiting for you and sending positive vibes my precious reader😏