Hey there, my name is Brittany! It's super weird "advertising" yourself to strangers, but here goes. I have so many dreams and desires, but it's so hard to actually put them into words. I took a long time writing this out and doing my absolute best to articulate my wants and needs, because that's the best chance I have of finding what I've been looking for. For those also posting their own ads- you're brave as hell and I wish you the best of luck finding your person!

I have 2 tortoiseshell cats named Val & Charlee (after Tiffany Valentine & Charles Lee Ray), plus, I've fostered & TNR'd many kitties. Be warned, though, if you ask about them, I'll probably never shut up. Bonus- you'll get so many kitty pics. I'd love to foster again, someday, when I have my own place and a spare room for it. I'd also love to have a fenced-in backyard with a wire net roof, with shelters for ferals, so they have a safe place to live, and I'll have my own little community of kitties.

I've never been in a "real" relationship before because I'm just pessimistic about the existence of love in general. Also, being in a relationship wasn't something that was super important to me, especially because of the depression rut I've been in throughout my twenties. However, having just turned 30 and this New Year being a nice, rounded 2025- I want to make some changes to better myself, and putting myself out there, opening myself up to loving and being loved, is a major step.

I've struggled with my identity within the DDlg community for a while now, wondering, "am I really a little?" I can be youthful in my actions at times, but am I interested in sippy cups, diapers, or mountains of stuffies? No, that's just never been me. I've learned that the term "middle" is more fitting for me. Whatever I am and as it fluctuates, I'm hoping to find someone patient with me, and to hold my hand while I explore and learn about myself and what I want/need.

I'd love a doting Daddy to be wrapped around my finger, but at the same time he must mean what he says, whether it's promise or punishment. My ideal Daddy would be on the softer side, as I've never been the type to enjoy humiliation, degradation, or extreme pain. Preferably, they'd use my own pleasure as a means of control. Fair warning, I am a self-proclaimed brat- which, for me, means that I enjoy the game of cat & mouse, and I have a bit of a smart mouth at times.

I want more than a "boyfriend"; the word seems so juvenile and nonchalant. I want a life partner. I want a love that runs very deep, but at the same time, I want us to be there for each other, feelings aside. Every day, I want us to choose each other, and not for us to fall into a pattern of convenience or complacency. I want us to have compatible qualities to be what each other needs, and for us to be strong enough to support each other, come what may. I want us to be family.

I've liked to roleplay online, ever since I was a teenager, and I still do today. I've had a handful of online "situationships" this way, but never anything serious. I'd love to find someone who enjoys roleplaying as well, because I think it's a great way to close the distance while also learning a lot about each other's mannerisms. I still post roleplay ads, if you want to peruse, but be warned, they're a little...explicit. Try not to think less of me, we all chase loneliness away in our own ways.

I'm definitely not looking to meet up with anyone immediately, as I'm working on myself, but I am open to talking to anyone from anywhere, as long as: you are my age or older, our time zones aren't so different as to limit our communication, and we click on a natural level! Chemistry is so important for me. If you somehow read all of this and are interested in the possibility of sending little love letters, then I look forward to hearing from you!