I’m not sure what it says about either of us that we’re on this subreddit in the Christmas season, but I like to think it only means we know what this season is meant to be about, and we’re looking to find it.

While I’ve had my fair share of wild/exotic/rough kinks, I don’t really care about them anymore. I’m not sure if I truly even belong here anymore as it seems, as I’ve gotten older I don’t want the fun, new exciting thing from a random who messages me and talks to me for a night. I want the slow burn, the get to know more and more of you, and be with someone long term.

I’d describe myself as more of a daddy dom. I have experience with both subs and littles, tho certain types of littles (the ones who it just somewhat naturally permeates through every conversation) seem to have my heart the most. I can’t promise you’ll have all the glitz and glam of a sadist, but I’ll punish where needed, build up and tear down when the. times call for it.

I am mostly into the realm of mental domination it seems most days. finding out what makes you tick, what you care about, etc. I never seem to use it against someone nowadays, but I think having that power alone can make some people feel something.

I don’t take any part of a dynamic lightly. If you want to talk with me, don’t come out of desperation, or thinking I’ll be something I’ve explicitly said I’m not. Loyalty is the most important thing in the world to me. If i can’t trust you, I don’t want you. And if you can’t trust me, you don’t want me.

I’d hope that in a dynamic with myself you’d feel the love you long for. You’d feel alive, refreshed, and able to know, no matter what may come your way, you’ll always have someone in your corner. I don’t do this out of pleasure or thrill seeking, but out of conviction it may be one of the few places I can truly find someone willing to meet me in the hard parts of life.

I hope you’ll join me for the journey. If you do, I’ll explain all the kinks and things of that nature to you in the chat we can have. If not, happy searching.