As the title says I'm looking for that special someone in my life that I can connect with, help to satisfy the need in my life to take care and look after someone close and dear to my heart and embrace the lifestyle that's been so common in my life for over 10 years now.

I identify as a "Soft Daddy" type, my focus is more on praise, nurturing, encouragement and providing a warm, safe atmosphere for a Little to truly embrace their Little side and feel safe and comfortable while doing so. But not just toward their Little side either, but to be encouraging, supportive and helpful toward all those times they have to be Big in the world as well, as I believe a Daddy should be present for all aspects of their Little's sides.

About myself:

• On the slow journey of getting myself into better shape with better diet and exercise, so don't expect the physique of Hercules. I'm just plain average, on the slimmer side but looking to tone, not to bulk out. 5"10 depending on who measures (Seriously I get like 5 different opinions about my height and its maddening), short dark brown hair and hazel eyes.

• Somewhat typical nerdy type, I enjoy both video and board games though I play a lot less board games due to not really having local friends available to play. Interested a lot in Zombie Media, Anime, Fantasy-based settings. I have an interest in writing though its been a while since I've written anything, I love seeing other people's creative works and encouraging them further.

• Animal lover, especially towards dogs, birds and hedgehogs! I'd ideally like a Little with a fondness for some kind of animal as I'd love pets in the future.

What I'm looking for:

• An emotional connectiom: I want us both to fully embrace the lifestyle together, even if we're apart I want to be looking after my Little and to have the trust of my Little for them to embrace their Little Space while we talk.

• A physical connection: I'm looking for something more in-person, so a heavily long-distance connection won't be something I'd be happy with for long. Easy travel to and from Cardiff for both of us is a must for me, though for anyone in the South Wales area I'd be willing to make exceptions as travelling is much easier in that area.

What I'm not looking for:

• Financial DDLG: I'm not looking to be someone's sugar Daddy where I'm expected to lavish them with expensive gifts. Helping to look after a Little's needs is one thing, but I don't believe in financially-dependent relationships.

• ABDL: This is a personal preference, with no offence to those in that community but it isn't something I cope well with.

Anything else can be discussed, I'd love to hear from you sometime soon!