Hello. Hope you're doing well today dear reader. For now you can call me Spark until I find you worth my real name. I'm going to start this off with general information about myself so you can get an idea of who I am and if I fit your needs and wants. After that I will go into detail about what I am after. So let's begin!

Age: 33

Sign: Leo (Not much for astrology but I respect the practicr)

Height: 6' or 6'1" in boots 😜

Weight: 190 (I'm 100% dad bod but I'm working on it)

Eyes: Blue

Hair: Shaved head (I'm balding and not vain enough to try and save it)

Beard: bushy and glorious

Religion: Pagan but I don't discuss my faith unless asked. I believe the soul (or lack thereof) is between the person and their god(s).

Politically I am waaaaay left leaning. I believe in a woman's right to choose. I believe in LGBTQUIA rights. I believe racism is a systematic issue in our country that needs to be discussed. I detect sexism and bigotry. I believe that all should be allowed to exercise their freedoms as long as their freedoms do not detract from the freedoms of others. That's not always a straight path to walk but life can't always be simple.

My personality is a chill one. I am slow to anger but quick to understand. I am relaxed in life. At the age of 27 I achieved all my life goals. I own land and a home. I have a easy job that makes me enough money to maintain my simple existence. I go to work, play video games, watch anime or YouTube. I take care of my 2 cats and generally keep to myself. I'm not antisocial or an introvert really. I've simply learned that having many people around me does not bring me joy or peace. In fact it detracts from it. I have a few friends I know I can count on and they can count on me. Distance or time does not change that. So I exist in my solitude and peace. Enjoying the simply life I have built. Do I struggle at times? Yes. I don't let it distract me though. If problems arise I solve them as best I can. Even if that means struggling for a bit.

By now you should know if I am your "type" or not. So let's get into detail about what I am looking for in a Little/Submissive and who i am as a caregiver/dominant. 😀

First I would like to state that Domination and authority are not rights but privileges given to a Dominant and/or Caregiver by their Submissive and/or Little. This is a fact many have forgotten and it shows in the community today.

I would also like to state that CGL is NOT a kink. I do not participate in age play. If you do I do not judge you but I ask you move on from this post. Moving on.

As a Caregiver I am soft but stern and I know when a situation calls for which approach. It is not my goal to mold my Little into my perfect vision of who they should be but to nurture their own vision of who they wish to be. I provide the care and wisdom they require to be the best them they can be. No 2 Littles are exactly alike however so this requires flexibility in my methods. So I cannot speak on those methods as they evolve and change to fit the needs of my Little one. I can say that there methods develop by being open and honest about needs and wants. By maintaining open and honest communication about emotions and desires.

As a Dominant I am 100% a soft/pleasure Dom. I am incapable of degrading my partner or causing serious harm. So if you require your partner degrade you or be physically harmful I'm not your type. Spanking is one thing but to cause serious bruises or draw blood would destroy me.

My approach to Dominance is not bound in rules and punishments. My approach to Dominance is earning the respect and trust of my Submissive to a point that they know if I tell them to do something that it is for their best interest or well being. Even if they do not like it they will comply (looking at all you dehydrated Subs right now, drink some water please.) As a Dominant if I have to threaten you with punishment to get you to obey me then I am failing as a Dominant.

I'm sure by what you've read you can tell this is a lifestyle for me. I have no shame or desire to hide this part of myself. So this is not something that is solely practiced behind closed doors. Of course I don't bring my kinks out into the streets that is not what I mean. What I mean is my partner does not need to hide their little side in public if they don't wish to. They can call me "daddy" or "sir" as they please. This lifestyle and relationship dynamic is a beautiful thing and I see no reason it should be kept hidden. Many will disagree I'm sure but that's not my concern.

Now on to what I am looking for. It's simple really. I'm looking for a partner/Little/Submissive that is kind, understanding and willing to be a big ole nerd with me. I play video games, D&D, watch anime and learn about random topics on YouTube. I'm looking for my last love. I'm looking for someone who will be my equal in life. Be there when we struggle and not shy away from getting their hands dirty to help solve the issues that arise. Someone who will share their passions with me and revel in sharing mine. I'm looking for someone who can be open and honest without being cruel. I'm looking for love. Real love that is ready to find someone to be with. Time is slipping by and can never be held again. So if you are unsure if you want someone to love forever then I'm not for you. I am ready for forever, if there is such a thing. If not then for as long as I have.

Well this post has gotten quiet long enough. I feel I've done all I can to give you an idea of the kind of man, Caregiver and Dominant I am. So if you would like to know more please feel free to message me. If I do not get back to you quickly I am most likely working but will get to you as soon as I can.

Thank you for reading. Have a good day, a merry holiday season and a happy new year!

P.S. I did not proof read this at all. I apologize but I'm tired and at work. So yeah. 😜