A bit about me: I’m a 30 yo female who has lost her entire immediate family to death. I don’t have any cousins or aunts and uncles that I talk to so it’s really just me and my pup. I am currently working two jobs and am looking for a third or looking for one that can give me actual full time hours so I stay pretty free right now with my main job not giving me any hours whatsoever. With being free all of this time I am able to keep a conversation going and am able to communicate effectively as well. Even when I am working my job is relaxed enough to where I can text pretty much all day. I love just relaxing and being able to read a good book or watch a good tv show. I’m currently trying to read anything by Colleen Hoover and watch Yellowstone. I’m 5’5 with shoulder length brown hair. My body is definitely not where I want it to be so I am on the thicker side. Once I get my finances sorted I do plan on hitting a gym that’s local to me. I have brown eyes as well.

I’m looking for someone who can communicate effectively and one who can allow me to explore my little side. I haven’t gotten to see that side of her in a really long time and it would be great to explore it in a safe and consensual manner with someone. I do not take my little side into the sexual part tho. In the sexual aspects I am a submissive through and through. I’m also looking for someone who I can relocate to. Definitely not as happy as I could be where I am now so a change of scenery could be nice. But definitely not rushing into that part either. Speaking of rushing, I don’t want you to plan on me calling you “Sir” or “Daddy” right off the bat. Please also don’t expect me to begin taking rules right off the bat either. I’m also looking for someone who is soft but firm. Red. Someone who encourages me in my daily life but can put their foot down if I act out of line. Which I try my best not to do because I hate punishments. The only thing I’d “rush” on is meeting someone face to face because if I feel a connection soon enough, I’m gonna want to meet you to see if that connection transpires to in real life too. Which I guess I need to mention I’m looking for something IRL. Not online. I need the closeness of someone.

My limits are pretty basic as I haven’t had a ton of experience with BDSM lately or in the past but they are as follows: illegal, blood, bodily fluids besides semen, face slapping, anything with going out in public nude, extreme punishments, beastiality, anything that could get me fired from my jobs, permanent markings, sometimes even temporary markings, hard pain, and a few more I’m sure I’m forgetting right now.

If any of this intrigues you please reach out using the hidden color in my message. I most likely will not respond if you haven’t included the color in your message. Happy searching.