Hi there!

I'm looking for a long term relationship with a patient and caring dom. I honestly would be so happy to find someone that's willing to make me feel cute and cared for and loved. I'm a pretty needy person but I would give everything I can to making sure that I can make you happy and that all your needs are met. This post might be wordy but I'm hoping that it gives as much detail as possible.

About Me

I'm 23 years old, and I absolutely love my job. I am currently working on getting my MS/PhD. I have a lot of hobbies, but a lot of them come and go depending on the season. I do love to bake a lot though.

Physical

I'm about 5'2 and 135 lbs. I do lean on the curvier side, but I think I'm relatively proportional. I have a history of eating disorders so that's likely to change in either direction depending on how I'm doing mentally. I normally keep my hair chin or shoulder length. I think I look like a normal person but people have told me I dress like I'm a closeted nerd.

Emotional

I am a very emotionally needy person. I have some mental illnesses that make it very difficult to be stable sometimes but 95% of the time, I am loving and caring and hopefully an amazing person to be with. I will give you my all when I can, but for the sake of being transparent, there's a small chance I will make life exciting but not in a good way. I'm looking for a dom/relationship that can offer stability and protection for this reason. Overall though, once I feel comfortable, I am pretty clingy which I know could probably be a lot sometimes.

Kinks

I would say most things on here are necessary but are just my personal preferences. I love orgasm denial/control, edging, praise, breeding, choking, ddlg/cglg (without the age play), some impact play, occasional free use, wardrobe control, traditional gender roles (mild), bondage. I'm interested in anal training but have no experience and am honestly kind of scared. Some things I'm not interested in are anything feet related, misogyny, extreme humiliation, piss/scat/blood, permanent harm, public play, and diapers.

Misc (some disqualifiers)

I am not interested in having kids at all. There will be times where my ovaries decide I want kids and I will probably talk about it but please do not listen or encourage that. I am a tiny bit too career focused and not the most mentally stable to consider kids. I am allergic to cats. I love them and they're so adorable, but I do not want to be the person that makes you pick between me and a cat. I will probably feed outdoor cats though just because I think they're amazing (from a distance). I am only interested in monogamy.

What I'm Looking For

Physical

I'm looking for someone that is healthy, but with a muscular/lumberjack type build. I also welcome general dad bods and anything that would be comfortable to cuddle with on a regular basis. I'm not picky on race :) Also, please be within the ages of 25-35. If you're out of that age range then that's fine.

Location

I prefer a more woodsy, secluded area to live in. I wouldn't be interested in living near a city at all. I think my overall preference is somewhere rural and with a view. I like enjoying the scenery and love pretty drives. Some place without mountains or curvy roads or lakes would probably not be the best fit for me. I am not super deadset on the east coast, so if you have a location with mountains and seasons somewhere else then I might consider moving for something special.

Personality/Interests

I've noticed that I get along the best with people that are driven and motivated and willing to push me a bit. I want someone that can be completely honest with me, care for me, and also push me to go further with my goals if I mention it. I have a soft spot for nerdy gamers but if you are not that then that is completely fine. I am not super big into sports or gym life or partying.

If any of that seems like it could be you then let me know :) If not, I hope you have a spectacular day!