Hi, I’m a 25-year-old switch looking for a long-term relationship based on trust, respect, and mutual equality.

I’m a black-haired, half-Balkan, half-East German guy living in the Munich area. I’m 172 cm tall and currently on the heavier side. I work in IT and lean into my nerdy side pretty hard. While I don’t expect us to share every interest, it’d be great if we had some overlap. I’m the kind of person who’s caring but also a bit cynical and blunt once I’m comfortable around you.

I’ve got my own place and have things sorted out for myself, so I’m not looking for someone to “fix” me... I’m just looking for someone who’s equally ready to build something meaningful together.

I’m into engineering, 3D printing, anime, music (especially niche genres and good audio gear), and I collect pacifiers and baby bottles and ABDL gear in general. I’m more of a couch potato than a traveler, so if you’re looking for a partner to explore the world, I might not be the right fit. I’m usually happy to tag along for activities or events but rarely take the lead in planning them. Most of my friendships are online, and I’m cool with that, though I’m fine if you prefer more local connections.

I’d prefer to meet a cis woman, ideally younger than me and of Caucasian background, but I’m really more about mental compatibility than anything else. My last relationship was a rough 9-year run that ended in betrayal, so trust is a big deal for me. I’m looking for someone independent who knows how to give and take in a relationship—I’ve had my fill of one-sided dynamics.

My ex was an Autistic Little, so I understand what it’s like to be with someone who has their own challenges. Everyone’s got their stuff, and I’m happy to be supportive as long as it goes both ways.

As for kinks, I’m into a balanced dynamic where we take care of each other. I’m into ABDL-related stuff but have firm boundaries, especially when it comes to body fluids outside their natural contexts. I’m curious about things like breeding and open to trying new experiences, but I’m not into pain, BDSM, or polygamy... it’s just not my thing. My sex drive is slightly above average, and I’ve been missing intimacy for a while now.

I’m not interested in long-distance or purely online relationships. If we click, I’d love to start with some chatting and maybe grab a drink or some food to see where things go.

Thanks for reading all the way to the end! I’m pretty new to this whole dating and actively looking thing, so I hope you can cut me some slack... I’m just trying to be as honest as I can here. No clue if this even works out, but hey, I'll give it a try.