hi! it's nice to meet you! i am located in southern ohio, living with my partner and our small zoo. i'm currently seeking a second SERIOUS partner, and/or potentially a triad! ideally you are local but i am open to mid-distance with goals of closing the gap. we are open/poly and date separately or together. if you've messaged me before and i didn't respond, feel free to message again! i do miss some, but please remember i can see your comment history, posts, and have a question at the end of my post that rarely gets answered. there may be a reason i did not respond.

i am 5'7, curvy/chubby, and punk/goth. i have dyed hair, tattoos, piercings, and dress alternatively. physically i do not have many preferences in a partner, i just like who i like, but bonus points for bhm and tattoos 😅

i like to make art, play games, cook, go to antique shops, grow plants. i absolutely LOVE seeing live music. i love strawberry and hello kitty everything. i have a strawberry themed kitchen. lately i've been very into coloring, please ask me about it, it's a niche coloring community i found online and i have been using it as a form of escapism. i would like to have children some day, if politics and the planet permit. my life dream is close community on a nice farm :)

ideally, you are interested in BDSM, and would like to have a D/s dynamic with me that extends beyond the bedroom. think rules, a schedule, training. i am looking for someone who identifies as a caregiver, as i am also a little. i like to feel looked after and value it highly. things like helping with meals, brushing my hair, coddling, etc. i appreciate being taken care of, and think it creates a very special bond between two people. i do enjoy little activities, especially with a caregiver to do them with. coloring, cartoons, baking, makeovers/dress-up, walks/park, are a few i like. with christmas coming up, i would looove to go see christmas lights together!!

pls be 420 friendly, leftist, and age appropriate. what's your favorite christmas gift you've gotten?