Hi, I go by Plant, and I’m looking for a short-term (mostly) non-sexual caregiver/dom. I’m asexual and want to explore my little/sub side in a way that focuses on emotional and playful dynamics. While I’m open to sexting after we’ve gotten to know each other for about a month, I’d like to take things very slowly. By short-term, I mean something that lasts less than a year. If you’re not okay with a slower pace, this probably won’t be a good fit.

I’m a junior in college, so school comes first for me, and I’d appreciate a dom who encourages me in my studies rather than derailing me. As I write this, I’m heading into finals and winter break, so I ask for patience if I don’t respond right away. I also volunteer in various places and actively attend church, so if religion isn’t your thing, we might not be the best fit. (I don’t care if you’re not religious, as long as you’re respectful of my beliefs.) I’m open to sharing life pictures and selfies once we’ve established a connection. I’m in the EST timezone, so I’d prefer someone in a similar timezone for easier communication. I struggle with ADHD and anxiety, so reassurance is key. I can also get clingy and chatty, so if frequent texting isn’t your thing (though I’m open to setting rules to manage this), it’s okay to pass.

For a small intro into what i like, I enjoy teasing, and have a hand/vein kink. I’m a newbie to BDSM, specifically the DDLG dynamic. I prefer to get to know you first before exploring new kinks or ideas. In my free time, I like playing video games, watching anime/shows, learning new skills, reading, and studying Korean. Recently, I’ve been hyperfixated on motorcycles, so expect to hear me ramble about that whenever I learn something new! Physically, I’m 5’1, slightly tanned, with brown hair and brown eyes.

For my preferences: I’d love for you to be 20 but younger than 24 (please provide some form of age verification, nothing too revealing). I prefer taller doms with a deep voice and someone active or who works out (though only age is a must). Experience is a bonus, but your patience and willingness to guide me are much more important. Being a student and working on things together is definitely a plus! I appreciate prompt responses or at least a heads-up if there’s a long delay. I’d like someone who helps carry the conversation since I want to relax my mind in this dynamic. I love being checked on throughout the day and enjoy rules, though I haven’t tried rewards or punishments yet. I’d also love to voice chat when possible or exchange voice notes. For the dynamic to work, I’d prefer if we’re physically/aesthetically attracted to each other, so exchanging pictures once we’ve vibed would be ideal.

If you think we’d be a good match, feel free to reach out and tell me a bit about yourself! I’m happy to answer any questions or discuss things further in DMs.