✨🌈 Open to all genders but ideally looking for a ‘daddy’ type vs a ‘mommy’ type, if that makes sense?🌈✨

🖤I’m in SoCal, please be close to this time zone, east coast if you’re awesome 😉 I love to travel and go for adventures so this is a LDR not online only. 🖤

Okaaaay, let’s doooo thiiis!

About me: - I’m married and we are a mixture of parallel/kitchen table poly and date separately. I’m only looking for one D/s dynamic. - 5’11, mixed (naturally tanned), HWP but naturally curvy, brown hair and brown eyes. Lots of piercings and lots of tattoos, witchy/goth aesthetic but I spend day to day in leggings and band tees. - She/her, Pansexual queer, very demisexual. - I am pretty neurospicy 😅 and I have some sensory issues with physical touch but we can talk about this later. My love languages are acts of service and quality time. - I’m a certified yapper! (be warned) I love to chit chat and ramble. Basically I like a LOT of communication but I am realistic about it. I will enjoy bugging you with questions, memes, music, voice notes etc. Just little things to let you know i’m thinking about you. - I love to laugh and generally be a silly goose. I’m a very curious person, I love to learn from people and their perspectives. I enjoy being self aware and introspective. I definitely overthink a lot which can be a bit annoying but I just know it will come in handy one day 🤓. - In my spare time I love to read and to listen to audiobooks and podcasts. I love to go for bike rides and long walks in nature. I enjoy cooking and baking.
- Three years sober by choice and honestly don’t mind if you smoke/drink etc. - My attachment style can be a little bit anxious but it’s something i’m working on but it is triggered by avoidance, please don’t be avoidant (unless you’re actively working on it too). - Sagittarius Sun, Scorpio Moon, Libra Rising 😅✌🏼🖤

My ideal caregiver: - 28 - 45yrs old - Queer people to the front of the line! - Someone who has the time, energy and enthusiasm for developing a connection and is consistent with this. - Please be self aware and take care of yourself both mentally and physically. I work really hard on myself, i’m always growing and learning and am looking for like minded people to experience this with. - If you love to role play then lots of bonus points ✨. - Someone who identifies much more as a soft/sensual Dom/top than anything too hard.

Middle me: - I feel like i’m a weird mix of little and middle. I don’t really have an ‘age’ I just like to be me. I don’t like to be babied, not into ABDL or pacis. I enjoy things that are spooky and cute, I have a lot of stuffies. Definitely clingy 😅 and I loooove to be a brat 😇. - I don’t really experience little space, it’s just a part of who I am, somedays I feel more little than others. I will make time for myself to dress up and enjoy little things. - I enjoy colouring, making bracelets, Legos! Anything I can do with my hands while watching rom coms or anime. - I have yet to experience anything like this in person or long term, so I consider myself inexperienced. Hoping to find someone patient and nurturing.

Kink stuff: - Cg/l, dd/lg, praise! role playing, praise, somno, dirty talk, outfit control, toys, butt stuff, Did I say praise?? Adding praise again. Oooo i’m also kinda curious about some mild degradation and humiliation but I need help with this. - I am really curious about petplay and would like to integrate this as much as possible please! Limits: usual stuff.

Okay okay, i’ve rambled on far too much. Hopefully you’ve read this through, I don’t reply to short or low effort replies. Reddit chat only and then onto telegram. I don’t use snap etc.

Actually! I forgot. My attraction to people is weird at the moment, if we could swap pics early that would be great. 🖤✌🏼🖤