Hi, my name is Mike. Despite the shear volume of men posting pretty much the same thing, I wanted to give this a go. I fully expect it to get lost in the wash of m4f posts, so if you’re reading this thank you.

My apologies for the long post, but I talk in paragraphs and look for the same level of intelligent communication.

About me; I live in Brisbane Australia, 52 with broad shoulders and chest. 6’2 with a bald head and clean shaven. I admit I’m not as slim as I used to be but I am still fit and active and love a range of outdoor activities. I’ve been called a gentle giant with a kinky mind, I love all the sweet cute things that a princess likes, but I love to mix some kinky fun in to keep things spicy.

I’m a musician and play guitar, I enjoy learning new songs and writing my own when the mood strikes. I’ve been in bands and done solo gigs, miss the gigs but not the egos that come with some musicians. I’m also a hobby wildlife photographer, both that and the guitar are my happy places. Will you become one too?

I got into bdsm about 15 years ago after watching related porn and realising that’s who I am. I have spent long hours over the years studying and reading all I can find. I don’t believe we ever stop learning. For the last 12 years I have been an active dom, first online but have had real life subs too. I’m always striving to adhere to the traditional protocols but keep things fun and interesting.

NSFW My kinks are varied depending on my mood and the mood of my sub. But I’m a big fan of the dd/lg dynamic, I enjoy shibari rope tying, bondage, impact play and love love orgasm control. Being asked permission to cum is so beautiful.

But my biggest kink is the submission itself, the transfer of power in that moment is truly intoxicating, that gift of trust and love is such an amazing thing and to feel that trusted and loved by someone is intensely beautiful!

My ideal partner; younger than me, but age is just a number to me. Being in bands I have always had younger partners and feel more at ease around younger people. You can be 18 or 48, I don’t care, as long as you have a little side and we connect on a spiritual level. Just be willing to learn the proper ways of the lifestyle from a patient and caring dom

NSFW play will depend on what we are both into and of course real life commitments. But I would want to progress to phone and video calls in an app reasonably quickly as I’m not a fan of texting endlessly. I prefer the sound of a voice so I hear the emotions in it.

I’m happy to entertain any and all little space play, colourings, reading to her, talking to her as she falls asleep, cuddling plushies/stuffies, making a Spotify playlist for us, watching movies online together or even bathing her.

I’m looking to start something online and if both of us are happy to meet then we would make that happen with the bus to being together long term if things go well. I am single and live alone so I can host or travel at short notice.

Your messages are most welcome, but mention your all time favourite Disney or Pixar movie…just so I know you read till the end……mine is “brother bear”

Ok I’ve chewed your ear enough, thank you for reading this far. I hope you find what you’re looking for. Be safe and keep smiling. (It makes people wonder what you’ve been up to 🤪) 🌸🌼🌻