Hi!

I haven’t posted on here in almost a year! Woah! Strap in for a long welcome back post. :-)

I’m a 21 year old (AFAB) nonbinary person (he/she pronouns please!) seeking a CG and Dom/me! I’m bisexual/queer, so gender doesn’t matter to me. I prefer people that are older, educated, well-spoken, and driven. I’m insanely attracted to intelligence and love having intricate and thoughtful conversations with my partner. However, I am clingy and require more reassurance than the average person (I have BPD), so I do need someone who’s ok with that! I’m also on the chubby side, but I am losing weight. Overall I adore spending time with my partner and will take as much time together as you can give me!

When it comes to what I’m looking for in a partner, there is quite a bit. First and foremost, physical attraction is important to me. I’d like it if we could exchange pictures upon introduction just to make sure there’s a mutual attraction there before we proceed so no one gets attached before getting hurt (or feel free to send a picture with your introduction!). I have a type for beefy, muscular men, tall women, and people with nice voices. Especially alternative ones. The second is.. really minute and totally not set in stone, but I’m incredibly attracted to proper punctuation, capitalization, and grammar. I myself don’t use it very often so I think I like the contrast. It makes me feel small in a good sort of way. I would like someone who is interested in a long-term monogamous relationship, but doesn’t feel the need to pressure that to form immediately. This includes asserting yourself as my Dominant or Caregiver right off the bat, or jumping the gun to have sex. A leftist partner is also important to me, as I’d prefer my partner to share my views and beliefs and think that giving people basic human rights is important. I’d like someone who wants or will talk to me more than once a day as well. It’s just very hard for me to wait around for my partner all the time, and I’m quite the chatterbox when I like someone. Really, at the end of the day, I would just like to spend time with you in whatever way I can. And lastly, just… be kind. Please. :’)

(P.S. I’m also very set on never wanting/having children, so if that’s something you even think you may want, I’m not the person for you!)

For some info about submissive and little me: Little me is quite different from my usual self. I typically am around a toddler-ish age (although sometimes younger), and most times I am nonverbal or communicate through small or single-word sentences. Although I’m very calm (I never really throw tantrums or cry), I’m still very bubbly and want to spend all my time with my Caregiver. I love watching calm, older cartoons, playing with my stuffed animals, and coloring. Submissive me is incredibly obedient and thrives off pleasing my Dom/me and earning their praise. I love rules and structure and enjoy small daily tasks to complete. Some kinks and fetishes I’m into include: puppyplay, impact play, ageplay, roleplay, predator/prey, monsters, hypnosis, bondage, orgasm control/denial, masks, boots & boot stepping, gloves, monsters, intox play, and medical play/roleplay! Limits include Master/slave dynamics, TPE, spit, scat, vomit, heavy/harsh degradation, and cucking/infidelity.

Outside of kink, I’m a huge homebody and nerd. I adore gothic media and literature, Final Fantasy, anything written by J.R.R. Tolkien concerning Middle-Earth, renaissance faires, and vampires.

If you read all of this and you’re still interested, I’d love to hear from you! <3