Helloo!

My name is Lidia, I'm 19 y.o. and i am a trans girl from Brazil, therefore english is my second language. my pronouns are She/Her and I am looking for a Caregiver!

What I'm looking for in a caregiver is someone who is patient, as I have had quite a bit of trouble with frenzy and would appreciate someone who would be willing to take it slow. Also, someone who is willing to compromise in this dynamic long-term, and be able to talk in a regular-ish manner. Respecting my identity and boundaries are a given.

A little about me:

I am a very artistic person: I enjoy drawing, making music, writing, studying Art History, etc.
In fact, my main goal at the moment is to pass the SAT at my local university to get a teaching degree on Visual Arts (specifically Art and Poetics.)

My other interests include Tabletop RPGs, Worldbuilding, Conlanging, Spec-Bio, Vexillology, Philosophy, Social Studies, playing games online with my friends, and other different but still very nerdy things.

I would describe myself as very high energy, when in a comfortable environment. my friends tell me i'm very funny, but i don't know if their comedic taste might be as bad as mine.

I am neurodivergent, as i have OCD and Tourette syndrome. this means i say or type weird things without meaning to sometimes, and generally worry about things a bit more than the average person.

I am also non-mono! (though i do struggle a lot with jealousy, i'm working on it ;w;)

Now to the CGL related stuff.

I am fairly new to the scene, around 9 months in, and only had experiences online so far (which is fine by me.) My interests would be considered softer and more positive than the stereotyped version of BDSM the general public knows.

I am interested in CG/l specially because it allows me to be as much of myself as i want to, without fearing judgement or harm. I also admit that i enjoy having a safe space to escape from the big scary world, where i don't need to worry about things that much.

I don't wanna talk much about kink, until we're able to see if there is a possible connection, even though there obviously is a strong sexual factor for me in this dynamic. But, for now, things i would like to do in this realm would be watching cartoons and movies together, drawing, playing games online and just having someone to text and/or call while in that mindspace.

Thank you so much for reading this! I hope you consider messaging if you found yourself intrigued or interested, i am always open to questions <3