Hello! I'm recently 40. I live alone with two cats and a leopard gecko, have a career, I've never been married, and don't have any children (I've had a vasectomy). I'm 5'9", brown hair, beard, and have a dad bod.

I am seeking a long term monogamous relationship and hopefully my forever partner.

More about me: I love hiking and being outdoors and active. I love cooking (I have posted some of my food on reddit) and trying new things. I find cleaning to be a stress reliever for me. I love going to flea markets, and thrift stores hunting for Elvis records, under priced comic books, or cursed objects. I love my job and while it can be very mentally demanding at times, I prioritize a healthy work/life balance. My music tastes are all over the map but like The Menzingers, Silverstein, Radio Company, and everything from emo to classic rock to some limited country or rap.

I decorate my living space with Halloween decorations and have an appreciation for anything creepy, spooky, or goth even though I I dress like anyone's Dad in flannel most of the time. (My living space is posted).

About my style: I am a daddy type dom to my core. I really enjoy a needy partner who wants someone to rely on, and trust and I really look forward to building that trust with someone. I will not call you a pet name, or try to establish rules, or make demands of you for a while, and only after the relationship has a very sturdy and healthy foundation. I want to get to know and connect with someone who could potentially be my forever person. I'm patient and respectful and know how much of a nightmare this place can be, so I'll do my best to make things fun and enjoyable

If this will be an online thing for a while we can talk ok the phone or FaceTime and do virtual dates and exchange care packages to make the distance feel smaller.

Experience as both a Dom, daddy, and Dd and I have love for all of those roles. Kink list is extensive but nothing that would be shocking.

BDSM ABDL curious DDlg Petplay Light impact play Light bondage Feet Ass play (giving)

I hope I hear from you soon and we can start building something really beautiful together.