Hello!

I’m A. I’m 32 and live in Washington State (western half).

•Appearance - I’m 5’10 and mixed ethnicity (Italian/Mexican). I have light skin and dark features. My hair is black and my eyes are dark brown. I have a full beard which I keep groomed. I’m told it’s very soft and not at all scratchy or scraggly. I have a little bit of a tummy, but overall I’m fit and have higher than average muscle for my height, and I go to the gym to build and maintain that. Attractiveness is subjective, but I do think I have an attractive face. I’d be happy to trade pictures in DMs.

•Myself as a caregiver - “A warm fire in a cabin deep in the woods” is the “feel” I strive for in my interactions with others. I enjoy helping those I care for by supporting them to learn to manage their big emotions, daily stressors, and find comfort in the warm, cozy trappings of home. I would love to fetch your stuffies, make you a cup of tea or cocoa, read to you before bed, and sing softly to you when you’re upset. I want our connection to be a place that feels safe and loving to us both. Open and direct communication are very important to me, and I pride myself on staying calm in conflict and being able to describe how I feel at any given moment.

•Myself as a human - For work, I’m a mental health therapist and have been working in my field for about 4 years. I’m self-employed and run my own practice. I live alone in my own apartment with a cat, a snake, some fish, and many, many houseplants. My primary hobbies are PC gaming, journaling, reading, and lifting at the gym. While I’m a relatively social person, I am absolutely a very introverted person to my core. I love being home, cooking, listening to soft music, writing in my journal and cuddling under a blanket.

•What I look for in a little/middle - I’m hoping to find a nerdy little/middle girl. I want to find someone who is looking to grow as a person. I’ve spent much of my adult life in introspection, seeking healing, and personal growth. I would love a little who is looking for guidance and support in growing as well. I want a little girl who comes to her daddy for help and advice, and uses the relationship as a safe base so that she can take chances, and grow into the person she wants to be. I want to take you new places, show you new things, and do everything in my power to help you feel warm, safe, and loved.

Also – I’m a giant nerd, and I hope you are too! I would absolutely love a little that I can play video games, watch anime, and read fantasy novels with. Make an effort to play some of my favorite games with me and I’ll be smitten with you right away.

•Monogamy - Monogamy is very important to me. I want to be yours and I want you to be mine. I long for the day that I find someone who I can commit myself to so I need not think of being with anyone else again. I have tried being poly, but it hurts my heart so please only message me if you’re committed to monogamy like I am. Some day I want to be married and raise a family of my own, so please consider that as well if you’re interested in my post.

•Lifestyle - A healthy lifestyle is important to me. It’s taken time to be consistent, but I do prioritize health in my life and I hope you do too. I go to therapy, the gym 3-4x/week, eat healthy, and take my Vitamin D in the Winter. You don’t have to be perfect, but I want to know that this is important to you too. I want to maintain my health into my old age and I want to make sure that I look my best so that my little girl still thinks her daddy is handsome… even as he becomes an old daddy. Nothing is more attractive to me then you showing me that you want to take care of yourself too.

•Long term - Starting online is totally fine with me. Most of my time is spent on my computer and my hobbies can be easily shared across the internet. However, I am hoping to meet someone who is serious about moving closer together in the longterm if we both feel that this is a good fit. I have a large friend group in Washington, and a family centric to the West Coast. I’m also currently licensed to work in Washington so my preference is that one day you would be willing to move here if you live somewhere else. Obviously this is not something I expect any time soon, but I want to say it upfront in case you know this is a deal breaker for you.

•Kink/Nsfw - I am not interested in S&M or bondage. I am interested in D/S roles as it pertains to CGL/DDLG but I am not a traditional leather-bound, punishment-doleing dom. I have tried this role on for others in the past and it just does not appeal to me. I do not feel drawn enough to S&M to do the amount of learning and practice it takes to do it ethically and safely. That being said, I do have interest in exploring exhibitionism and group play. I am also bisexual but have never had a bisexual experience. These are not things I need in a relationship but if you also have interest then that would be great!

If you’re interested I would love to hear from you. Please send me a message with a little introduction of yourself and what you’re looking for! Hopefully our wants match up. Thanks for reading – I hope to hear from you.

-A