Hi there, you can call me James and hopefully one day Daddy! I am hoping to have chats and build bonds with many of the littles out there and with, all the hope in the world, find the one who I can daddy forever. So obviously there is a preference for a long term relationship, I like to build a lot of trust and understanding before getting too much into it, but if you'd like to just have a chat or just want to make a friend then please feel free to send a message. It's always a delight to meet someone new even if it won't be forever. Though if you are looking for something long term then maybe I am just the man for you :D

Basic information:

So as I said my name is James. I'm 25 and I'm from the UK. I am 6ft (183cm) tall, I have brown hair, blue eyes and facial hair. I am also just a bit hairy in general so if you like a hairy chest you're in luck. In terms of being my experience I've been a dom in many different ways. From short to long term, purely online to irl, hypersexual to platonic, and from caring to sadistic. In all my time I found a particular joy from being a long-term daddy so that is what I'm mainly looking for but I still had loads of fun in all my dom escapades and meeting all the fun people along the way.

SFW:

Interests:

Here's some stuff that can help you know if we might get along well. I like to go for walks in the countryside and have recently started going to the gym a lot more. I'm a bit of a nerd. I love my history and reading non-fiction is a favourite past time. If you want a 1.5 hour powerpoint lecture about the causes and outcomes of the Falklands War then I am your man (consider this a warning because I may have subjected a very loving and patient person to that at one point). I also love my music. In terms of my particular tastes I can be a bit of a hipster, I generally listen to things from the 1960-80's, and if that's not bad enough I also really enjoy my classical music (if you can play Elgar on the cello I am yours instantaneously). To not make myself seem too old fashioned, I also enjoy watching films, playing games, and having recently started watching anime. For films I do still like history stuff but for me the film is more about an event which everyone can get comfy and popcorn so anything works, and for games I like anything from strategy games to wholesome building games like minecraft and stardew valley. I would also like to say that I am probably one of the most willing people you'll ever meet when it comes to your hobbies and activities. I love to try new things and taking part in something that makes someone happy is always a joy so if you like suggesting fun new things it will be much appreciated.

Who am I looking for?

If you have read everything so far and thought I sounded great well there is a 99% you are the exact person I am would like to meet. Something that will make you really special to me is someone who will put in the effort to making sure everything is going well. Of course I would be daddy but I won't always know if there is something you want to do or that you want something to change and sometimes, especially online, things will just be difficult. A relationship can't work with only one person committed to it so that is my greatest wish. I also like someone who doesn't mind a bit of blending of the daddy dynamic with day-to-day. I understand that some people need them to be in completely separate boxes but personally I like being very daddy at during little times, a bit daddy during normally, and serious when the situation arises. Also if someone likes being bratty, as I said that is absolutely fine, but there can be times where I want out if something serious happened and understanding when to actually stop is important.

Physically, you don't have to worry at all. There is an ever so slight preference to smaller people but that is completely just cause picking you up might be a bit easier but if you're a plus size or vertically-gifted little I'm sure I will just go the gym a bit more ;) I would also like to mention that I am pansexual and so any gender or just any person in general needn't worry about themselves, I'm sure I will think you're cute.

As I mentioned, I am more than happy to have friendships but the aim is really a long-term sexual relationship. I am monogamous and having a high sex drive is a positive but not a requirement, it's only as I really like trying new things. Affection is however required and so even with the brattiest little in the world needs to show daddy she loves him in her own special way.

Who am I in a relationship?

It's important for you to know the sort of daddy that I am to be. I'd like to say that by and large these aren't hard limits and rules, merely what I am aiming for. So there is some flexibility but it should still give you a good understanding of who I'll be. Respect, honesty, communication are the three most important things. In this kind of relationship there is always the risk that these three things are pushed to the side as they might feel like they are getting in the way. This can't happen and we must work throughout to ensure that you feel respected, that you feel like you can be honest, and that you know you can communicate anything you want. Now for how I'll treat you. In our relationship generally I like to be the most caring, loving, supportive person ever. I like to help you do your very best and take care of you whenever things get to much. I can still be a bit strict but only in a way that I think it will be appreciated and help you long term. It's really enjoyable when you try and be petulant or bratty but you will know who is daddy here haha. When it comes to more sexual things, I will get into specific interests later, but it should be noted that I like to have a strong base before we start anything. Preferably we will know what the other person wants and established some form of safeword just in case so that everyone can feel comfortable in our roles.

My hope is not to just be the person who makes you meals, or brings you your stuffies, or kisses you on the forehead, or just makes you feel small and little. I want to help you. I want to make your life better for having me in it and making sure you can achieve everything you want. You want to have a little day where you eat nuggets and watch tele? Wonderful, I will go and get your favourite dino nuggies from the store. You want to drink more water? Excellent, lets go make a sticker chart and think of fun rewards/punishments. You need to complete this important bit of work? Don't worry, I will take care of anything to give you the time and help with any proofreading or structuring or however I can. I want to look after my little no matter how small or big the problem is.

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Kinks:

Well you got this far so I think you deserve to learn a bit about my kinks. So I have quite a high libido and propensity to try new things. I would say that the 'standard' nsfw night with me is quite a soft one where it's all very affectionate and loving and I do like to hear "daddy" still. However, I absolutely love to mix it up and usually it's so I get to see how much you enjoy things. Orgasm control/denial, overstimulation, bondage, impact play (spanking over my lap is a huge plus), humiliation, degradation, anal, roleplay, and choking will give you a pretty good starting point of some things I've enjoyed before. The list does go on and quite frankly I will love to add even more new experiences to it. In general, whatever makes you the happiest will be the thing I get obsessed with.

I'd also like add that I've never tried subbing in any capacity so if you are predominately a little but sometimes get the urge to be in charge I'd love to give it a shot. As I've said, I love new experience.

The only hard limits I can think of are - scat, anything illegal

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Well that's all from me! I hope this wasn't too long for you (and if you do happen to read all the way down to here you can put "bubbles" in your message and you'll definitely get bonus marks). If you have any more questions for me please just ask away, I'm a very open book.

Good luck to all who are looking for their caregivers and littles and I look forward to getting to know some of you soon :D