HEYOOOOOOOO me ish Nana (ฅ^{•ﻌ•ฅ)✨,} a 23-year-old little from Indonesia! I’m also a kitty meow >3<. I’m looking for a sweet and caring caregiver (any gender) who can connect deeply with me, possibly leading to something romantic or just staying as a beautiful friendship. I’m genderfluid, demisexual, pansexual, asexual, aroflux, and go by he/him pronouns! (●ˇ∀ˇ●)

Important Note: I believe in letting relationships bloom naturally, so no rushing here! Just like a slow-cooked meal tastes better (as long as it’s not burning TAT), I think strong bonds need time (≧ω≦)ﾉ. I’m open to romance but will need patience and time to feel truly comfortable and secure, especially with NSFW things due to past trauma (but I’m not closed to it completely (/ω＼*)).

What I’m Looking for in a Caregiver (✿◡‿◡) If you’re sweet, gentle, and don’t mind taking things slow, we could be a great match! I’m looking for someone who: - Any gender - Shares My Values: Feminist, socialist/leftist, pro-choice, and ideally agnostic/atheist. No offense, but I don’t think I could handle a religious or conservative/ring wing caregiver! Just a kiddo meow >~< - Soft & Understanding: Monogamous and enjoys a soft dom dynamic without any harshness! No raised voices or cold logic during vulnerable moments—support is what I need T3T Initiates and takes the first step, this doesn't mean i won't do that as well! in fact my whole life i have always been the one that initiate and take the first step which ended up forcing me to be put into a role that did not fit me (being given too much emotional labor) i would still initiate and take the first step, but i want someone who can meet me at my effort! T_T - Patient and Kind: Takes time to learn about my quirks and imperfections without judgment, supporting me through my health struggles - Encouraging but Gentle: Can offer guidance without pushing, and reassures me with lots of affirmation (*´∀`)~♥ since I can be a bit doubtful! - Structure & Routine: I find stability in gentle guidance, though I can’t handle strict punishments—just soft, secure support that makes me feel safe >0< - A Matching Depth: In my whole life, I’ve rarely found someone who could meet the depth of my emotions, curiosity, and need for connection. I’m seeking a caregiver who isn’t afraid to dive deep into my raw pains and emotions, genuinely understanding me, and matching my effort in building this bond T_T

Also, this isn’t a dealbreaker, but my dream caregiver might be older (even a year older), maybe with that ‘lean, fit’ look (like a V-shaped body?!) who could lift me like a princess! (But really, it’s optional!) ✧(≖ ◡ ≖✿) so i am open for anyone that doesn’t fit into any of those things.

A Little About Me (￣︶￣)) I’m big on deep convos and love exploring different topics, from philosophy, politics (only when I’m in the right headspace) to cartoons! (≧◡≦) ♡ My favorite things include art, classical music, indie music, alternative music, pop music, history, literature, novels, manga, anime, cute cartoon, j-style, Lol*a style, dolette style, coquette aesthetic, emo aesthetic, alt aesthetic, gloomy aesthetic, gloomy weather, grunge fairycore aesthetic, documentary, horror movies, thriller movies, rom-com movies, drama movies, photography, beautiful/peaceful/quiet place, spicy food, boba, tiktoks, cute pinky stuff, plushies, sanrio, horror games, true crime stories, feminism, socialism, psychology, mental illness, coloring, drawing. I have a wide range of knowledge and can engage in conversations about various subjects Ꮚ⁠˘⁠ ⁠ꈊ⁠ ⁠˘⁠ ⁠Ꮚ. I’m all about safe cozy chats and finding beauty in all sorts of things. I also want to be a writer, youtuber, tiktokter, streamer, VA, musician and artists in the future. If you’re still reading, send me the code “lontong padang” in your DM—then I’ll know you’re as awesome as I thought! (｡•̀ᴗ-)✧

Health and Communication ✨ With my health issues (SLE, BPD, OCD, ADHD, CPTSD), I need a little extra understanding and patience. Arthritis and my SLE often slows me down with typing and communicating, so please don’t take it personally if I respond slowly (I’m probably resting my hands and body or being sick as usual!). Voice calls would be easier for me, and would be a great way for us to bond as well more than texts! though i mostly can only voice calls morning to 5-6 pm Indonesia time so keep that in mind meow 030

As a Little 🎀🍧 I’m a child at heart, always curious, expressive, and playful. When I feel safe, I love engaging in baby talk, watching cartoons, and just enjoying simple, comforting things. I've always longed for a caregiver who can give me the acceptance, warmth, and stability I’ve missed. I’d love a caregiver who genuinely understands the layers beneath my playfulness and sees the world with similar wonder and compassion. (´꒳`). 

What I Offer (´▽`ʃ♡ƪ) As a little, here’s what you can count on from me: - A deep, authentic connection, filled with meaningful moments ♡⁠(⁠>⁠ ⁠ਊ⁠ ⁠<⁠)⁠♡ - Genuine support, kindness, and my own pep talks to lift your spirits! - Respect and understanding for your needs and feelings - Creative joy through art and a bit of my quirky sense of humor ✧(≖ ◡ ≖✿) - A safe, open space to share whatever’s on your mind and a listening ear for your struggles and joys - A balanced, boundary-respecting dynamic where we both feel comfortable - Appreciation and gratitude through creativity (gifts, drawings, songs, crafts), words, affection, and effort for every bit you put into our connection! - Learning and supporting you with your disabilities, interests, and passions, as I know caregivers have their own needs, too. (シ. .)シ

If you’re looking for a little who values depth, warmth, and mutual respect, please send me a DM and we can continue on other platforms (灬º‿º灬)♡