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34 [F4M] #SoCal #PST #LDR - Dorky bratty middle looking for my soft caregiver.
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Lonelygothkitty is a female age 34 looking for a male in Southern California
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🌈✨Open to NB AMAB, Trans masc etc anyone that identifies more with the ‘daddy’ vs ‘mommy’ side of things - if that makes sense?✨🌈

🖤I’m in SoCal so ideally looking for people more within this timezone but comfortable MT,CT even Aus/NZ. I love to travel and go for adventures so this is more of an LDR than an online only thing. 🖤

Feeling kinda weird posting again, I don’t seem to have much luck on here which is fine but I’m weirdly optimistic so let’s give this another shot! 🖤🦇🖤

About me: - I’m married but we are a mix of kitchen/Parallel poly, child free, two cats. Only looking for one D/s dynamic. - 5’11, mixed (naturally tanned), HWP but naturally curvy, brown hair and brown eyes. Lots of piercings and lots of tattoos, witchy/goth aesthetic but I spend day to day in leggings and band tees. - She/Her, Pansexual queer, very Demisexual! Sometimes I think i’m some kind of grey ace because my attraction to people is very slow but then all of a sudden it clicks and then it’s very intense. - I’m a certified yapper! (be warned) I love to chit chat and ramble. Basically I like a lot of communication but I am realistic about it. I will enjoy bugging you with questions, memes, music, voice notes etc. Just little things to let you know i’m thinking about you. I enjoy long deep conversations as well as superficial stuff. - I love to laugh and generally be a silly goose. I’m a very curious person, I love to learn from people and their perspectives. I enjoy being self aware and introspective. I definitely overthink a lot which can be a bit annoying but I just know it will come in handy one day 🤓. - In my spare time I love to read and to listen to audiobooks and podcasts. I love to go for bike rides and long walks in nature. I enjoy cooking and baking.
- Three years sober by choice and honestly don’t mind if you smoke/drink etc. - My attachment style can be a little bit anxious but it’s something i’m working on but it is triggered by avoidance, please don’t be avoidant (unless you’re actively working on it too). - Sagittarius Sun, Scorpio Moon, Libra Rising 😅✌🏼🖤

My ideal caregiver: - 28 - 45yrs old - Someone who has the time, energy and enthusiasm for developing a connection and is consistent with this. - Please be self aware and take care of yourself both mentally and physically. I work really hard on myself, i’m always growing and learning and am looking for like minded people to experience this with. - Someone who loves to role play is a bonus! - Someone who identifies much more as a soft/sensual Dom/top than anything too hard.

Middle me: - I am more of a middle than little but I have a lot of little tendencies. Definitely clingy 😅 and I loooove to be a brat too but mostly i’m a good girl 😇 I’m super curious about petplay and would love to integrate this as much as possible. - Top kinks for meee: ddlg/cgl, praise! petplay, age play, role playing, praise, somno, dirty talk, outfit control, butt stuff and i’m very orally fixated (giving) - Did I say praise?? Adding praise again. Oooo i’m also kinda curious about some mild degradation and humiliation but I need help with this.

Okay okay, i’ve rambled on far too much so let’s do this! Chat soooon 🖤✌🏼🖤

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