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18 [Nb4A] #UK - Soft little looking for someone warm and kind.
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idont_understand_ is a non-binary person age 18 looking for anyone in United Kingdom
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Hii! My name is O. Iā€™ll tell you my full real name when we get to know each other better. Honestly tho you can call me whatever you like (respectfully). Iā€™m a relatively new little, looking for a long-term (hopefully forever) cg to properly get to know and form a real connection with.

I love cuddles and little-space time, just as long as you still want to talk to me in normal-space too and have a laugh. Yes I love the CGL dynamic, I enjoy being looked after and treated special, and feeling loved ofc. But Iā€™m not looking for JUST a CG. I want a real relationship.

I donā€™t want to jinx it by saying this, but Iā€™m really looking for someone to fall in love with, someone I can talk to all night without running out if things to say. I rlly want to be able to have real conversations about anything and everything. Quality time is so important, being in touch with our own feelings and each othersā€™. And also ofc laughing together about silly things.

About me:

Physically Im 5ā€™7, with brown hair and a slim/kinda muscular build. And blue/grey eyes. (Feel free to ask if u want to see pics, but I might not always be in the right mindset to send)

Im a bit of a homebody tbh, I have friends but I donā€™t go out lots socially to clubs or anything. I much prefer staying in, but would still love having dates/adventures with someone special. Iā€™m a bit of a big nerd for all the typical nerdy things, Sci fi, LOTR, Pokemon etc, plus I love history and nature.

In my free time I read quite a lot, and I love to draw and do crafts. Sometimes I play video games so I wld love someone to play cute stuff with on call. Minecraft/stardew/PokĆ©mon/animal crossing, stuff like that, but this isnā€™t essential at all.

Also I love animals! I have a dog and she is pretty much my world. Plus a few stuffies I love.

Iā€™ve been through some mental health struggles in the past, and still struggle with things sometimes, so wld love somebody open-minded about that kind of thing. I donā€™t want to put all my issues onto somebody, itā€™s not your job to be my therapist, but Iā€™d rlly appreciate your support emotionally when Iā€™m feeling low. And ofc Iā€™m happy to try my best ti do the same for you, if youā€™re comfortable with that.

Iā€™m sometimes not great at looking after myself so Iā€™d love to find a cg whoā€™s happy helping with my routine, maybe setting daily tasks or something. Im ok with being set rules if thatā€™s something youā€™re interested in, but I can get sensitive if youā€™re too strict. I have a tendency to like shut down and block people out if Iā€™m told off too much, and neither of us want that. I guess Iā€™m just looking for someone caring.

I work a full-time job so canā€™t message all day but can message (and/or call maybe) most days in the evening. Once we get close I can be a bit clingy but itā€™s just cos I care a lot x

Ok, hereā€™s the NSFW stuff:

Iā€™m not in a big rush to get sexual, I think itā€™s probably healthier to form a bond first. But I wld need someone whos ok with me being flirty & dirty sometimes. I donā€™t mind if we never get into proper nsfw territory, but i can be naughty like that sometimes. I do have a fairly high sex drive once some days but this isnā€™t super common. Sexually Iā€™m 100% a sub (not that Iā€™ve actually got much experience irl tho). I also have some sexual trauma Iā€™m working through so yea pls be understanding of that.

What Iā€™m looking for:

  • No pervs who are only interested in being sexual. Like I said I first and foremost want an emotional connection.
  • Ideally someone around my age or older, definitely not over 40 or under 18.
  • Someone ok with sending pics (once youā€™re comfortable, just to prove ur not a catfish). Im not super needy about specific pics Dw.
  • Iā€™m not fussy about body type or ethnicity, but Iā€™d like someone who Iā€™m attracted to facially.
  • Please be fluent in English.
  • Preferably i want someone in Europe so thereā€™s not too much time-zone difference, but Iā€™m open to people anywhere.
  • Someone with a sense of humour and an open mind.
  • Iā€™m hoping for someone willing to make an effort - who wonā€™t send only one word replies, wonā€™t expect me to provide the momentum of every convo, wonā€™t always take over an hour to reply, and wonā€™t start my just saying ā€œhiā€ or ā€œI saw your postā€.

As I say, feel free to dm if youā€™re at all interested in being my cg.

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