Hey there, a little about me: I’m 5’7, my picture is on my profile along with a few of my cats, though none of my dog currently. I do have a dad bod and a solid figure, I am a manager at my place of work and am busy at times but always make time to reply. This is my first post back after having been away for some time from reddit. I switched recently to the irl scene and honestly the dating pool in my area is quite slim. I am looking for a submissive woman and I am an open book. If you're shy I understand that and will work with you, just be yourself, be original and know quite literally nothing will weird me out. I am all about good communication so if you are going to only send one-word messages leave now.

In case this is a TL;DR for you: a synopsis: I value mental and emotional health as well as learning about what you enjoy most above all else, this is not something I do for sex and prefer to keep things such as littlespace and aftercare completely non-sexual. There is a time and a place for such things like sex and that can be determined based on what the sub actually wants.

When we are speaking of petplay or anything that is outside of littlespace then you will like to know I am highly experienced in all aspects of bdsm and have been in the lifestyle for a long time now. I can assist you in finding out your kinks are however I am more interested in know a person limits first and foremost to set the boundaries. Do note if you are a brat who likes pressing buttons then you will have an enjoyable time with me. I typically have a vast amount of patience and enjoy letting a brat being themselves, though I know how to reign a brat in if they go too far in the bratting off. I understand and help contribute to the fundamental development of a Little especially if they are seeking littlespace (non-sexual and this is a hard limit that it will remain non-sexual). I encourage positivity and improved mental health and as a I have an advanced degree in psychology and business management, I practice effectively managing time and creating organizational development, so I can assist you in maintaining that in your life. Think of me as a quirky mixture of Gir from Invader Zim and Sheldon Cooper from Big Bang Theory.

Even though I am experienced in all aspects of bdsm and ddlg but I'm not here for hookups. I am an experienced daddy dom but I am not looking to be a sugar daddy; this lifestyle is about a loving relationship built on trust and communication and not just the sexual aspect of it. I'm looking for a little/brat who feels the same way and is finally ready to get away from fake doms and have a real relationship. Things I enjoy and consider hobbies: anime, video games, gardening, kayaking, hiking, mythology and nerdy/geeky content/podcasts, 50's lifestyles, goth clothing, reading (have a small library in my house and a guest room dedicated to littlespace so anyone who needs to unwind is able, I do have friends that are littles and this offers them a respite from life,) as well as raise animals, fish, build projects, hike, sleep, bingo, cook/bake and more. I own my house and my land, with a recently planted grove of trees for a fantastical appeal, as I also have a natural spring and cave under my property so at nighttime on the back porch you can listen past the sounds of crickets and frogs and hear the soothing sounds of water falling on rocks.

As you can see I do maintain a stable life, mentally, financially, and emotionally. I am just missing the significant other in my life that would make it entirely complete. If you think you would be interested in chatting for any reason, send me a message as my dms remain open.

Do not however message me if you are married or in a committed relationship.