Hello, nice to meet you! I’m a little from New York State who is fairly new to this dynamic and has never had a caregiver before. My gender is kind of complicated—I’m assigned female at birth and am femme-presenting, but identify more with masculine terms and identities. When not in littlespace, I use he/him pronouns and like being referred to as male, and am also thinking about going on HRT within the next few years. But in littlespace I see myself more as a girl and am okay being referred to as such. So I guess I’m kind of genderfluid in that sense!

Warning for a long post ahead.

About me/what I’m looking for in a CGL dynamic:

• I would say my little age is about 5 or 6, I may feel middle-ish at times though.
• I enjoy activities like coloring, watching cartoons, playing with dolls and other toys, and doing little crafts.
• I am not particularly bratty, or at least I wouldn’t start out in the dynamic as such. If anything changed I would discuss it with my CG.
• I would love a mommy and/or daddy who is gentle with discipline but also firm so that I have help sticking to my goals and learning from my mistakes.
• While I wouldn’t say no to an online relationship, I’m really not sure how well that would work for me, as I already struggle really hard with executive dysfunction even with people physically there for accountability. I feel it’d be even harder if my partner wasn’t close enough to visit often.
• I do NOT want the dynamic 24/7.
• I am NOT interested in diapers whatsoever.
• I am NOT interested in NSFW pic exchange. I’m fine sending face pics after we establish a good connection though.
• I am gray-asexual and while I’m interested in sex in the future, it would take a while before I would be comfortable enough to try it at all, let alone bring it into the dynamic (but that would also be a possibility in the future). I do have a few kinks which we can discuss in private.
• Overall I’m still figuring out my desires and boundaries surrounding this dynamic, and would prefer to get to know someone and then introduce the dynamic rather than just jump into a relationship.

What I’m looking for outside of a CGL dynamic:

• Age-wise: no older or younger than me (26) by more than 5 years.
• Someone who’s chill but also doesn’t mind long and deep conversations about what keeps us up at night.
• Someone who’s able to give me space when I ask for it.
• Someone who I can just hang out with like best friends, whether it’s shopping at the mall, having fun at a theme park, or just chilling on the couch while we do whatever on our phones.
• Someone who’s non-judgmental and doesn’t mind when people are weird.
• Someone who might push me a little bit, but knows when to stop.
• Someone who’s driven by compassion above everything else.
• Someone who shares my social justice ideals, such as anti-capitalism, restorative justice, anti-colonialism, fighting bigotry of all kinds, and allowing people to be who they are.
• Someone who’s willing to engage with my interests and also wants me invested in theirs.
• If you’ve read this far, include the word pineapple in your message.
• Someone who loves animals. I NEED cats in my life.
• Bonus points: you’re goofy, you’re creative, you play Minecraft, you take spiders outside instead of killing them, you can cook 

About me as a person:

• I’m about to start work for an agency that helps socialize kids who have hard and/or traumatic upbringings. 
• I am quite introverted, though I’ve been known to enjoy a good party every once in a while. Generally, though, I’m very much a homebody, and spend a lot of time by myself, and I frequently like it that way. I am really not a clingy person, at least out of littlespace.
• I enjoy watching all sorts of TV and movies, but I especially love animation, including anime. Classic Disney/Pixar is unparalleled. My favorite animated movie isn’t Disney, though—try and guess what it is!
• I like to read, listen to music (big fan of Taylor Swift!), write fanfiction, and play a few video games, my favorites being Undertale and Minecraft. I also like TTRPGs, ice skating, and singing (I’m in a couple of choirs). I also really want to ride horses in the future. 
• I also love cats, stuffies, Arizona fruit punch, peach rings, mac and cheese, skeletons and bones, and dinosaurs.
• I’m kind of into witchy stuff (crystals, astrology, etc.) and am looking into Saturnian worship and spirituality. 
• If you’ve made it this far, include the phrase “sans the skeleton” in addition to “pineapple” in your message.
• I very rarely drink and I don’t do drugs, though generally I don’t mind if anyone else does. I also do not smoke because I have asthma. 
• I also have some other physical health problems, as well as struggles with mental health. I am autistic and ADHD so my focus can be a little erratic, but I’m working on getting it under control. Due to executive dysfunction, I am not the neatest person, nor do I take care of myself very well, but I’m trying.

Honestly there’s a lot more to me, but if we click, we can talk about things together!

If you like what you’ve heard so far, go ahead and send a message! But please do NOT flirt (INCLUDING USING PET NAMES) right off the bat, I get very nervous :( Talk to me about what you like and what you’re looking for though and I’ll be much more comfortable! I really need to know someone before I’m ready for a real relationship.

If you’ve made it to the end, thank you for taking the time to read all of this. I hope it gives you a good sense of lil old me!