I'm looking for a Daddy to cherish and adore. Someone interested in building a relationship first and kink second. Someone who wants to learn each other’s hearts and minds, challenge each other, grow together. I want to become the center of your world and for you to become the object of my love, admiration, and respect. But recognize this is a process that takes time and needs to be earned on both sides.

I crave a loving and nurturing partner with a firm but gentle guiding hand. Someone who pushes me to be better, but comforts me when it gets to be too much. In turn, I'd love to care for you as well: be a shoulder to cry on, someone to share exciting news with, and there for all the mundane moments in between. I also value discretion- I don't want our kinky proclivities to be on public display, but I do want our dynamic to be operational to some extent at all times, even in the background, with you taking the lead while respecting my input.

In general, I live a pretty happy cozy little life. I am looking for someone who will enhance it. Of course, I have my issues (mainly struggling with self-esteem). And while I think a supportive and loving Daddy could help, I am not looking for someone to fix me. That’s my responsibility and I’m actively working on it in therapy.

I'm open to in-person or online connections. I love watching shows together, gaming, or just hanging out in voice calls (I particularly love cozy sleep calls at night).

Note: I value building some level of emotional connection before diving into discussing kinks. That being said, I know sexual compatibility is important, so I will note that I am into or willing to try most things under the D/s umbrella with the right partner. However, I am not into ABDL, blood play, or extreme pain or humiliation.

A bit more about me in bullet form:

• Moderately intelligent; extremely silly
• Low-key nerdy; high-key cutie
• Mostly a goody-two-shoes; occasionally a shit-stirrer
• Introverted homebody dweeb
• Too into video games for my own good
• Also into all things cutesy and cozy
• Physically: 5'2, average build, sometimes bespectacled green eyes, light brown hair, dimples (your selfie gets mine).
• Other misc. important details: I have a STEM graduate degree and WFH job, lean left politically, am agnostic, don't smoke or drink, and live alone (with a dog)

And a bit about you:

• 31
• Kind, intelligent, silly, ambitious
• Into video games and voice calls
• Into consent, respecting boundaries, communication, and self-reflection
• Single, monogamous, and emotionally available
• No racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, or otherwise bigoted behavior

Overall I want nothing more than to love and be loved, to make my partner proud and happy, to build a life together.

If I seem up your alley, please respond with a thoughtful message (I prefer regular messages to chats). If not, I hope you have a great day but you are dead to me. Good day <3