Hiii, Im M. I’m back! after a very long hiatus.

I want a lot and I think I deserve it and I think you want me to want a lot too. In this relationship, we build each other up and strive for the very best.

I’m primarily a brat and it’s not because I’m spoiled/ rude (although sometimes 😏), on the contrary, I know how to be the sweetest absolute best girl ever, and I can be, I just chose to take the longer, more scenic (and way more fun) route.

I’m looking for a(n) (eventual) long term cgl relationship. I don’t have too much of a preference for guy/girl, I just know that I want to be dominated thoroughly and completely especially in a mental way. Im not necessarily looking for a 24/7 lifestyle, moreso the balance between needs and wants and what our lives allow. I’m a very passionate, giving person and I crave connection and intimacy in all forms. I want somebody to match my freak both privately and publicly. I like structure, I like rules, I love praise but I also LOVE consequences. I love thinking outside the box and believing I have the upper hand, only to find that my “loophole” really isn’t one. I like my brain, and I want to like yours as well you. I love people who say what they mean and follow through. I quite literally want to fuck around and find out.

Who are you? Like I said, I want a lot and Ive spent far too long without it.

You are 27-37, ambitious, driven, equally sociable but down to potate for a new videogame/ series. I’d love if you play a sport or regularly go to the gym, not only for fitness but that dedication belies a mental strength and fortitude I crave. You have hobbies, things you are passionate about, people you care about, you have your own life outside of ours and goals that you want to achieve.

I love soft spoken people, those “don’t make me repeat myself” or “I’ll say it once.” Those sweet romantics who are sweet/ charming by choice but know the power of a well placed eyebrow raise or the tilt of the head. A well placed hand on my back that to the average eye is just a gentle guide but to us both, a very long and ultimately rewarding night. A simple “oh? Is that so?” in the softest of whispers, that would have me momentarily reconsidering my decisions leading up to that moment. I like certainty, thoughtfulness, communication, empathy, honesty and very importantly, sarcasm.

Outside of kink: I love cooking, crochet, videogames and have already beat my reading goal for the year. I enjoy a good DND campaign. I love walks but hate hikes (but I’ll do them because the scenery is sometimes worth it), am very social and sociable but when I want to couch potato, nothing is moving me from the couch. (Bonus points if you can.) I really want to pick up salsa dancing later this year, and consistently set aside time to practice my second language (work is ugh)

I’m 5’9 so I’d prefer you to be taller than me. Part of the mental subspace is me feeling smaller so I do love a good height gap. However, if you think you can have me wrapped around your finger regardless, I relish the challenge. If you can physically lift me over your shoulder comfortably, maybe I’ll consider being good.

I want so much more but I am prone to rambling, so I’ll stop here. (I do love thoughtful responses and messages that show that you read my post)

I’d like to start online and would be willing to move for the right person. I’ve done long distance before and if the intention is there, it can be done. Please don’t message me and immediately start with pet names and telling me what you’d do to me and where.

If you’ve read this far, tell me a book you’ve really enjoyed and how it imprinted on your mind.