𝐁𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐜 𝐃𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐫 - I want to build something strong (a connection) before we have any play. I would like to meet someone who's a feminist, the reasons for this particular condition are as follows - I've posted on similar subs before this and after perusing the replies I got from the first one, I've realised that some people think that respect is some thing deserving only of doms?! Or doms immediately jumping into character and demanding all sorts of stuff from me from the get go, not the least of which is servitude and calling them sir and so on and so forth. So I wanna make it clear right from the start that if you think mutual respect and basic human decency is something beyond your intellectual comprehension and something only for doms or something you don't do when you're roleplaying, this post isn't for you. This is a role for me, not a lifestyle. I'm a completely different person when I'm not in play mode. And I wish my prospective CGs or Dds to know that. I'm a whole human being aside from this aspect of my life, deserving of equal respect, etc, etc. I know this should be obvious, but the previous replies I've received here have compelled me to painstakingly spell this aspect out. So if you're someone who views this as a lifestyle, my post isn't for you.

𝐈𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 Hello, I'm M, I'm a 29 yr old, chubby, short (147cm), dark eyes, short dark haired woman. I'm an artist, I love creating things from scratch, I'm a foodie, I love cooking, gardening, photography. I love meeting different kinds of people, I like when people have a sense of humour, not at the cost of making mean spirited fun of others tho. I'm a left leaning feminist. Still discovering myself.

𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐈'𝐦 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 I'm extremely new to this community. I got introduced to this community through audios, and certain movies. What fascinated me the most about this dynamic was the constant and regular, consent seeking part, the dynamic may seem distant and cold from just reading about it, but it's all about trust building, building each other up, taking care of one another, venting in a safe way, giving the dark parts of us some space to breath so we can air them out in a safe way that doesn't harm people unintentionally. It has some very tender parts like aftercare that are very endearing to me. I need some emotional stability and routine in my life, that I'm having an extremely difficult time trying to achieve on my own. I need a gentle guiding hand, who's reassuring, allows me my space and is genuinely concerned about my well-being. I think I'm not alone in saying that recently I've been feeling very lonely and disconnected with life in general. And I wish to navigate this in a safe way with a trustworthy and gentle, caring partner.

𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐈'𝐦 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 I wish to have a SFW bond and dynamic to begin with, I want someone gentle and caring who can bring order and routine back into my life and help with day to day tasks. Whether later this bond were to evolve into something more, is something I'm open to, but only after my first and foremost goal is completed. I'm actually looking for someone who can help me maintain routine in life, i.e. staying hydrated, taking meds on time. As silly as it sounds I often forget to eat or have a messed up sleep schedule, I wanted to meet someone who could help me with these. I'm someone who works best with praise and encouragement rather than punishment, humiliation and degradation. I'm afraid negative reinforcement doesn't work on me at all, it makes me close up like a clam. I wish the people who're interested, to know that.

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭'𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐢𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 I understand this may feel very one sided but as we converse and talk further it'll become clearer how to proceed and most of these measures are precautionary, after receiving quite the barrage of interesting (in a negative way) messages to my last post.
I want something long term, monogamous and I would like to know the other person deeply and well as much as you'll allow me. I'm sure along the way, I'll find ways to help you out as well. I want this to be a an equal, give and take dynamic with mutual respect for both the persons involved. Very excited and looking forward to hearing from you guys. Do mention your favorite colour when you reply so I know you've read all of this. Thank you :)