hii!!

i'm a middle (11, specifically) looking for a kind daddy. i am introspective, curious, playful, and motivated middle. i like psychology, reading, listening to podcasts and music, collecting dolls, japanese skin/hair care, and nutrition.

i am poly and married to my wonderful wife. they have no desire to be part of a cg/l dynamic. our relationships would be completely separate.

i am looking for a daddy between the ages of 25 - 40.

being a middle is such an important piece of who i am. i value and cherish this part of myself. i believe that while it is certainly the caregiver's role to caretake in the relationship, it is also the job of the middle to ensure the well-being of their cg.

i like for my cgs to check in and make sure that i'm following my daily routines. i expect patience, loving-kindness and gentleness in theses interactions. i would love to spend time doing things with my cg like watching movies, going for walks (chatting and taking pictures) , carving pumpkins, ect. i am very open about my needs an expectations, please just ask.

when in middlespace i love learning more about skin and hair care, kpop, and some easy video games (sims 4, fran bow, ect). i get a genuine sense of joy being the middle to someone's big. it makes me so happy and content in a way difficult to convey over text. like i am truly happy. i am very upfront with my feelings and thoughts, and i appreciate that emotional maturity in a partner as well.

i expect, in this dynamic, to be pushed to accomplish more, with an understanding of my limitations to do so. being a middle allows me to relax and focus on the important things in life - self care and relationships with those important to me. i plan to ensure this dynamic is good for both of us by listening, supporting and ensuring the well-being of my cg.

i plan to establish and maintain open communication with my cg. i want to have a relationship in which i'm not scared to go to my cg with anything; no matter how big or small. i will engage in enthusiastic consent and i wish the same from my partner. i personally practice RACK - risk-aware consensual kinks.

i have been engaged in the cg/l/ddlg lifestyle since 2020. i have grown and matured (lol) a lot since being in this community. i have learned that i need an attentive, if not someone attracted to clinginess in a middle. i have also learned that it's my responsibility as a middle to take good care of my cg! i always want them to feel their best and that they are loved, wanted and appreciated

i am of mixed jewish, native and white heritage and practice both indigenous spirituality and judaism.

i am curious about lots of kinks! i am into 1950 household dynamic, bare bottom spanking, BDSM, being called a good girl, blindfolds, bondage, breast and nipple play, breath play, caging/confinement, candle wax, collar and lead, Daddy daughter roleplay, Daddy/girl, Ddlg, discipline, gagging/being choked by cock, hair pulling, handcuffs, humiliation, knee high socks, mind control, hypnosis, multiple orgasms, nun/priest play, pain, polyamory, restraints, role play, school girl uniform, skirts, spanking, verbal humiliation and degradation, whips.

curious about: abduction play & consensual non-consent

hard limits -

•no minors, no animals

•no sending nsfw videos/photos early on (at least a week)

•no scat play

•no blood play/needle play

•anything that results in permanent harm

•no race play

soft limits -

•water sports

•anal

if we sound like we might be a good fit, please message me, and we'll see how we get along! thanks for reading