I am a married and Polyamorous Daddy Dom from Oklahoma hoping to find a new little for a DDlg and D/s dynamic.

More about me:

Outside of being a husband, a father, and working, I also play rugby, I mountain bike and workout, I'm a bit of a gamer and a huge sci-fi nerd. I always try to be as open and honest as I can be, but I'm not perfect and I certainly don't expect you to be either. I'm a perpetual optimist and problem solver, sometimes even trying too hard to force a solution to issues that may just not have one. So if you come to me about a problem, please specify beforehand if you're in 'vent only' mode or want ideas to help fix it :)

NSFW and kink things can be discussed privately. If we get that far I'm happy to send more info about what I like and I'm looking for but in short, I lean towards the harder side.

What I'm looking for in a little/pet:

I'm looking for someone I can know and get to grow with, long-term, who is open to making a connection and has the emotional availability to do so. Someone who doesn't want to move too fast and take the time to really get to know each other, build a friendship, then a romantic connection, then the physical one.

Someone who needs structure and discipline I want to be an anchor in your life that helps you stay focused and centered. I'm big on praise and want you craving my approval rather than fearing punishments.

We are both active and really enjoy working out so if that's your jam too or you want to get serious about it then that's also a big plus. We also game on PC, less than we used to but hopping on discord is always a fun way to pass time and hangout.

Someone most likely in the U.S., I understand that seeking a relationship here will almost certainly start online and be primarily long distance. But I don't want it to be that permanently. I want to find someone that would be capable of and open to visits (both ways), once the time is right.

What I'm not looking for:

Someone super clingy or who requires constant attention and reassurance. I travel for work and sometimes work with customers and in buildings where I have no service or simply can't have my phone on me(not often but it happens). Or I have things that come up with work or my family which requires my full attention. So if you're the type of little who gets anxious or worried after not texting for 2-3 hours or if a snap goes unread for an afternoon, then I am probably not the Daddy for you. There are still plenty of times when I can and will text and be around all day but it won't be all of the time and I don't want to put someone through the stress and worry of me not being able to respond right away.

If you think we might be a good match, then feel free to comment here or send me a message introducing yourself :)