Bonus points if you know the movie I'm quoting in the title of my post- and no cheating!

Hey there, my name is Brittany and I'm a 29-year-old girl from NC. I have 2 tortoiseshell cats named Val & Charlee (after Tiffany Valentine & Charles Lee Ray), plus, I've fostered many kitties. Honestly, I can never shut up about them, so if you like cats, we'll get along. Bonus- you'll get so many kitty pics. I've never been in a "real" relationship before, as I'm just pessimistic about love in general, thinking about how slim the chances are that I would find "the one". Nevertheless, I'm trying to be brave.

I've struggled with my identity within the DDlg community for a while now, wondering, "am I really a little?" I want to feel protected by a strong, male presence and I tend to pout when grumpy, but am I interested in sippy cups, diapers, or mountains of stuffies? No, that's just never been me. I've learned that the term "middle" is more accurate for me. Whatever I am and as it fluctuates, I'm hoping to find someone patient with me while I explore and learn about myself and what I want/need.

I'd love a doting Daddy to be wrapped around my finger, but at the same time he must mean what he says, whether it's promise or punishment. My ideal Daddy would be on the softer side, as I've never been the type to enjoy humiliation, degradation, or pain. Preferably, they'd use my own pleasure as a means of control. Fair warning, I am a self-proclaimed brat- which, for me, means that I enjoy the game of cat & mouse, and I have a bit of a smart mouth at times. I can be insatiable, with the right person.

Some of my likes include: DDlg, soft domination, being physically aggression, orgasm control, tickling.

Some of my dislikes include: humiliation, degradation, name-calling, pain, breath play, ass play.

I'm definitely not looking to meet up with anyone immediately, but I am open to talking to anyone from anywhere, as long as: you are my age or older, our time zones aren't so different as to limit our communication, and we click on a natural level! Chemistry is so important for me. If you plan on messaging me, please tell me a bit about yourself as a Daddy! What is your style, what is your ideal little girl like, what types of punishments/funishments do you give, what does your dream life look like?