Ay up. I'm an AuDHDer from the UK looking for a little or middle to cherish and idolise, ideally also in the UK but open to online too. I'm new to BDSM and caregiver-little dynamics, so I've only had vanilla relationships and experiences so if you're searching for a daddy-dom more intimately familiar with dominance and submission then I don't think I'd be compatible with you.

About me:

My personality consists of standard Redditor tropes: I'm introverted, I enjoy nerdy hobbies like gaming, and other homebody activities such as reading; I am decidedly average and won't pretend I'm a social butterfly or live an exciting, action-packed life. I also work in IT - a truly unique profession! I am a passionate fan of heavy metal music, particularly of the satanic variety, but also fond of gothic rock and post-punk genres (I even enjoy some cheesy old-school house music!). I do vacate my humble abode as well to go hiking and nearly completed the three peaks challenge (cursed Yr Wyddfa), as well as frequent visits to museums, one of my favourites so far housing a collection of haunted memorabilia and horror film props.

Kinks and NSFW stuff:

As previously mentioned, I have only had mostly vanilla experiences in my life. Therefore, I don't have much in the way of established kinks or fetishes. I consider myself generally open-minded and willing to experiment, though I am firmly a dominant and not a switch or submissive. I am particularly fond of DDLG/CGL dynamics as I consider myself to have a paternal and caring personality where affection, aftercare, and princess treatment plays a large role.

Who I'm Looking For:

I am ultimately seeking to be a Daddy-Dom to a Little, Middle, or similarly minded submissive to pursue an online dynamic, with the hope that, if chemistry is established, we can later take offline. I want to establish routines and discipline with you, take care of you with words of affirmation and cuddles, and shower you with love and praise that extends beyond the bedroom. I embrace clinginess as a positive trait and welcome my human to tell me all about her day, no matter how mundane she may feel it to have been. I am also looking for my best friend and a relationship outside the dynamic. My inexperience means I will inevitably make mistakes and stumble, but I promise regular and transparent communication to ensure our dynamic is safe for you and I.

Dealbreakers and preferences:

• Only interested in cis/AFAB women younger and shorter than me, so please be 27 or below and under 5'6/168cm in height
• UK or Europe preferred for timezone purposes; still open to worldwide for the right person but communication may be difficult when one of us is asleep all day
• I'm fine with most body types, races, ethnicities, etc. but please don't be on the higher end of overweight (chubby is fine!)
• While I'm interested in a more gentle and caregiving BDSM dynamic, sexual compatibility is still important to me as I have a high sex drive (though I'm not really into sexting)
• ABDL is too much for me, sorry

Happy to exchange pictures after we've exchanged some messages first. DM me with one of your favourite songs or bands alongside an introduction so I know you're not a bot. Looking forward to hearing from you!