Okay! So I've read quite a few ads on here now and feel its time to write one of my own. It'll probably be pretty long, so feel free to grab a drink or some snacks (tell me what you got if you do!).
I'm a 25yo switch from the UK, currently living in the south of England. I'm in a really good place in my life at the moment, starting lots of new things and generally feeling pretty happy! The only thing missing now, I feel, is someone special to share it all with :) Ideally that person would be somewhat near to me (I'm a few hours from London but am thinking/dreaming of moving there) although I think something online could potentially work with the right person.
I wouldn't normally want to talk about the dynamic/kink right away, but I think what I'm looking for is a little unusual! As mentioned, I'm a both a switch and a daddy. I really adore ddlg dynamics, as I'm naturally pretty caring and love the cg aspects of it. I'm generally very laid back and doting, but also quite sensitive; probably because I care a lot! I actually kind of enjoy housekeeping too, which I think helps as a daddy...but also as a sub to a mommy! In both roles, I prefer soft and affectionate dynamics; though I'm not opposed to intense and harsh kinks either (in fact I love them!).
I could probably go on for way longer, but its perhaps something more suited to an actual discussion. I'm very much a laid back and calm person, which bleeds into my relationship style. I'm certainly soft and definitely a pleasure partner. I'd probably want someone who is similarly open as a mommy/little/sub, who likes to play around with the dynamic (mutual teasing, playfulness etc) and form something very fluid and predominately fun and caring :)
As someone who is given energy by learning new things I'm constantly trying to juggle a bunch of hobbies), diving deeper into interests, and interacting with people, I'd ideally want a partner who is open minded and bubbly! ( A person who gets excited to share stories from their day or something new they've learnt or gotten into, and also would like to hear similar back from me. To give you an idea of things you might here about...here are some bullet points:
- Plants! I think my new big longterm interest is growing and learning about plants/flowers. I don't have a garden or allotment (yet) so am focusing on learning indoor stuff for now, but I love going to flower markets and learning from everyone there!
- Nerdy stuff! I like video games (if you play too, that would be great! Minecraft/Terraria/Borderlands/It Takes Two...), anime, TV shows (Adventure Time etc) and will happily go into lore dump monologues if you let me. I also like reading books about materials/textiles and colour :)
- I don't wanna keep writing little blurbs sooo here's a list: baking/cooking, fashion, music, giving gifts, hiking and camping, sports, and exploring cities to find hidden gems.
Oh! And appearance, if that matters. I'm white, 6'0, and broad shouldered. I walk a lot and play sports, so I'm reasonably fit without being a gym fiend or anything :p I'm very much attracted to femininity, elegance, and most importantly confidence! I think style goes a long way (I'm still defining my own! Feel free to ask for pics/my pinterest.).
I'd love to hear about you, rather than just whitter on about myself for any longer. Something about your favourite flowers or baking recipes or something would be a nice addition :) Thanks for reading!
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