Me:

I’m a 31 year old graduate student located in the USA. My days are filled with solving hard problems and diplomacy. I am hoping to find a long-term partner who can help shut this side of me off at the end of the day. I crave to be a spoiled, pampered little girl who is watched after and cared for. I can be silly, goofy, needy, and a little bit dramatic (but I am reasonable!). I crave your affection and care.

I like being outdoors, planting things, playing with my cat, social media, reading, collecting perfumes, and I LOVE to learn. I am the type of person that loves to listen to others teach even if they go on endlessly. From science, philosophy , art, economics, politics, etc. Often watching documentaries even if I don’t remember most of them😅 I care a lot about self improvement, and probably need to relax and have fun sometimes.

I was involved with the ddlg lifestyle in my early twenties and took a long break. My interests in this dynamic are not solely sexually-fueled. If you are a hyper-sexual person, looking for a sexual dynamic quickly, do not engage. I will need support and time to sexually open up. That being said, I am generally open minded and do have my own kinks.

I am hoping I can find a dynamic where I can be my regular self and my “little self” , essentially a normal couple but we have this secret weird thing that no one else needs to know about, lol.

Physically, I am a curvy 5’3 190 lb white woman with long blonde hair. I am currently on a weight loss journey, but I prefer someone who doesn’t have a strict body type preference regardless of that. I do take care of myself, go to the gym, wear makeup, etc. I would like to get mild cosmetic procedures at some point.

You:

You are a stable, generous, protective, highly educated, successful daddy dom who desires a little/woman to take complete care of, yet you also respect her autonomy. You are not married or in any other romantic relationships currently. You are disease free and not a drug addict. I am open to various ages (although I prefer close-ish to my own), body types, races, etc. The most important thing to me is the way you treat me. You know that you are not entitled to my time or energy, and you respect me. I do the same for you. You treat me well, and I will make you the happiest man on Earth.

I am a liberal/centrist agnostic atheist and i prefer someone who aligns with these values. I am slightly open minded though. My dealbreakers are if you are strictly pro-life or deeply religious.

Ideally we will talk on reddit chat for some time and then progress elsewhere. I am looking for an IRL arrangement, but I don’t care if it takes us awhile to get there. I’d prefer to know each other very well first and message. I am also open to relocation to major cities.

If you got this far, thanks so much for reading 💜. Send a message if anything caught your eye or if you have any questions!