Hello everyone!

I am looking for something very particular, I would say, so I beg of you to bear with me with this post😅, as I am tired of dating apps, and I connect far better with people from Reddit, than from "real life".

I am looking for my forever partner. I want a best friend, a companion. I want to build a relationship, based off of trust and love. I want the sun to rise and set with you, and that you feel the same about me. I want to flirt and banter everyday.

However, I am also looking for someone to be my dom/daddy. I want rules and structures. I want to try every kink on our list, and I want to explore sexually, with openness and trust. I want our life to be filled with kinkiness, teasing and dirty, dirty sex. I want to please you, look up at you, and adore everything you do, and say, as well, as I want you to take care of me, and help build me into the best I can be. I want to get on my knees and worship you, just as much, as you want to do the same for me.

My love language is acts of service, so, and it contrasts with my abandtment issues lol, in, as much as you show affection, and careness, and wanting to build something lastful and loving with me, the more submissive, kinky and naughty I become. And the more you merely focus on just the sexualness of it all, the more I loose interest.

I've been told, many times, that submissives get pleasure just from the purpose of serving their Dom, and even though I partly agree, I also think it comes from the care, and affection shown by the Dom (I can be fully wrong about this, but it's just how I view it 😅)

I am not here for a hookup buddy, or for something to be strictly sexual, or Dom/you focused. I want it be thrilling, exciting, sexy and fulfilling for the both of us!

As a quote I read in another post in this sub: "It's not about solely finding the depravity, but more so, to find the sweetness that can cohabit within"

About me: I am a 30 year old Latina. I am from South America (Venezuela to be exact). I am an attorney, and work remotely. I also am a content creator, for the blue logo page. And lastly, I am a baker, and want to build an online platform for cake decorating classes!

I love Taylor Swift, politics, reading, writing erotica, baking treats, lingerie, and creating content for my page. I love watching Formula 1 on Sunday mornings, I love walks, and going out to eat yummy food. I fucking love traveling, and I want to travel through as many European countries as I can, even though, the UK has stolen my heart.

About my physical appearance: I want to be clear that I am a BBW/Chubby/Bigger girl. You can find a picture of me, pinned to my profile. I weigh around 190 pounds. I am partly blonde, with brown eyes, and I'm 5.3", or 1.62cm.

My kinks: My kink list keeps changing everyday, as I learn more about myself and my likings, what I am willing to endure and what I am not. However, the ones that remain constant are: Dominance, roleplaying, free use, teasing, a bit of exhibitionism, a bit of Public Play, breeding, orgasm control (even if I suck at it). I would like to try in the future: Group play, anal, CNC, bondage, and a few other things.

My hard limits are: Anything involving scat, pee, blood or any body fluid other than cum, anything that leaves permanent scaring, or something involving heavy violence (I get scared very easily).

About you: You're 30 . Hopefully you have your career in order, so you can teach me how to build mine😅. You're open, creative, communicative, sweet, with a special side of dirty and naughty, you're strict, funny, and have experience in the kink community/lifestyle. And if you have a head for business, that would be the cherry on top!

Location: I am open to starting online, however, I would like to move to in-person as it is possible. I am currently in Latin America, but I am planning a holiday to the UK in December, that will include Spain, and potentially Amsterdam. Who, hopefully you're either from the UK (as Taylor says: God, I LOVE the English😝), or you're from anywhere else, but open to travelling to meet up somewhere in between.

Please, do mind that: - If you are bellow 30 , I won't reply to your message. As much as young men are fun, I don't see myself with one, as I have a kink for someone older and smarter than me, so, yeah. - If you don't have time to put into this, meaning, having proper conversations, phone calls, etc, please do abstain in messaging. - If you are involved in another relationship, or in an open relationship, please do abstain as well. I respect people who do this, and have a big heart to share, but I am not into this. - Hopefully you can be okay with my content creation, or if you'd be into it, be a part of of it at some point.

I think that's about it. Hopefully someone will take the bait :)