i’ve been mainly lurking and slowly dipping my toes in this community, but i’m feeling curious to chat with folks who are open to connecting with me, knowing i have minimal experience.

first, a little bit about me. i’m a 30 yr old trans guy (nb), autistic/adhd, non monogamous and have one other partner currently. i am an artist by trade, and stoner/gamer(?)/watcher of youtube and twitch in my downtime. lately i’ve been getting into puzzles which really helps me feel little 🥰 i love to listen to and share music, especially if we have overlapping interests there. generally very down to just listen to info dumps about special interests!

i was first drawn to being a little when i started exploring, still very much am, but have more recently realized i think i would be well suited as a caregiver!! i’ll speak on both sides of me.

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Caregiver side:

i am someone who cares deeply for people in my life, always have. i’m fiercely protective of my loved ones. i’m very loyal to people who show mutual respect, care, and interest in me! i want nothing more than for you to be well, to feel seen and supported, to feel safe to be your true self.

i’m gentle and would prefer to connect with people who aren’t looking for someone strict. but, you need encouragement? you want reminders to help you stick to your routine? and someone who won’t judge or punish you if you can’t meet your goals? i got you! i’m very kind and will do my best to help you give yourself some grace. things like that bring me a lot of joy, knowing that i can help you in your day to day life.

i feel like i would be a great support for neurodivergent littles, i’ve got personal experiences to pull from and am always open to learning more about the nuances of why certain things may be more of a struggle for you. i know that being understood is a huge factor in feeling safe, and i want to prioritize putting in the effort to understand you.

i’m not looking for anything sexual, maybe not even romantic (i’m some flavour of arospec). historically my care for others has been read as very romantic, which is less than ideal 😅 this kind of dynamic feels like a safe place for me to show my care without it being read as me showing romantic interest by default. i’m open to things shifting down the line, but i’d rather be explicit about where i’m most comfortable starting off!

i’m not currently ready to commit to something long term, that doesn’t feel right when i’m still learning so much. but i would be honoured to have the opportunity to care for a sweet little if we click.

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Little side:

my little age is somewhere around 3-6, very gender fluid. given that i grew up as a little girl, that definitely comes out when i’m little. but i also feel like a little boy sometimes, or just a genderless little one 🥰

often i feel lost when i’m little, directionless but very much want to lean in and explore. i think having a cg/babysitter (or even a little friend) who can work with me to create a safe environment for me to sink into little space, someone who sees that side of me and encourages it, would make such a big difference in my journey. come and hold my hand 🥺 i might be a little afraid to splash in the puddles by myself, but it might not be so scary if i have someone with me.

to be a little more specific, some things i could really use help with is creating more structure in my life and holding me accountable. help me get my chores done, help me get out and move my body, encourage me to step away from being a grown up and spend more time being little. show interest in the little things about me/my day. but obviously we can chat and figure out more specifics there.

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Again, i’m not necessarily seeking anything long term, romantic, or sexual. I’m most excited about something more casual and purely online. I’m happy to connect with caregivers and littles alike! so far i don’t see myself leaning strongly in any particular direction. it would be so cool if there was someone who’s switchy about it like me! definitely not required though 😊

i’m an open book for any and all questions. feel free to dm me and let’s chat!