Hello Reddit,

I know this ad is lengthy, but that’s on purpose. I’m big on check-ins, attention, and communication. I’m a high communicator, and this ad serves as a preview of what to expect if you want to court me, date me, own me, or consider me as yours. This is just an appetizer—if reading this excites you rather than tires you, please keep going and reach out! You’ll need to be the kind of man who thrives on communication, structure, spiritual connection, and deep devotion. On my journey to my daddy/master husband I've obtained more information and uncovered bits of me that have changed what my needs and wants are and this will reflect those changes. *Tanoshimi yo!* (I’m looking forward to it!)

**Privacy and Communication Requirements:**

Moving to Discord or Signal for communication is *mandatory* if you wish to court me. You’ll need to have a profile on one of these platforms before reaching out or responding to my reply. This is a non-negotiable aspect of establishing trust and ensuring smooth communication.

I understand we can all be camera-shy, but I require you to share your picture first, emphasizing the safe and secure environment I need. If you expect my picture before offering yours, it tells me you're not prioritizing the trust and nurturing atmosphere I seek.

Additionally, my phone number, social media, and email will only be shared after we’ve been consistently talking for several weeks, proving longevity and commitment. This ensures we’re building something serious with staying power before moving to deeper levels of contact.

**Evolution and Growth:**

I’m someone who is constantly evolving and changing. I don’t stay the same or cling to outdated beliefs. Once I learn something new, I shift and adapt quickly. This Phoenix-like energy is part of who I am, and my dating ad reflects that. My journey to find my Daddy, husband, and owner involves growth and transformation, and this ad marks where I am on that path. So, if you’re seeking someone who’s fluid and open to deep transformation, keep reading. *Ai no messeji!* (Love message!)

**Astrology, Spirituality, and Emotional Cues from Music:**

Astrology is central to my life. My Vedic astrology reading recently confirmed that spiritual men are sending out signals to me, guiding me toward the right connection. If you’re not comfortable with astrology, magic, or mystical arts, we probably won’t align. But if you’re excited by energy work, angels, or any form of spirituality, whether it’s Christian, Daoist, or otherwise, then we’re likely to gel.

Music is also a powerful spiritual and emotional cue for me. It gives me insights into myself, my energy, and the dynamics I’m drawn to. I resonate deeply with certain songs and lyrics, especially those that evoke bratty, LG, or Daddy energies. So, if you love music and feel connected to it on an emotional or spiritual level, that’s a plus.

**Cultural Appreciation and My Connection to Japanese Culture:**

I have a mystical connection and deep appreciation for Japanese culture, which has been a significant part of my life for decades. I dress alternatively and was into Japanese Gothic Lolita fashion for 13 years. While I still love elements of it, I’ve transitioned into experimenting more with kawaii, bright, and graphic styles that reflect my personality. I’m an anime fan and enjoy TV shows that blend emotional, mental, and spiritual growth with entertainment.

**Marriage-Minded with Clear Structure and Commitment:**

I’m still marriage-minded, but I want to clarify what I mean. I’m not interested in casual dating or short-term connections. I need a partner who is planning for the future—someone who can envision life compatibility, career alignment, and even potential children. BDSM has taught me the importance of structure, organization, and clear boundaries, and I thrive in an environment where those are present.

Once we establish that we’re a good fit, I expect you to come to me with a plan on how we’ll move forward. A Daddy with leadership and foresight is key. Tell me how you want to structure our relationship, and I’ll feel secure and excited to follow your lead.

**LG Personality and Hypersexual Nature:**

I first realized I was an LG in my late teens/early twenties. I’ve had plenty of time to explore who I am, and I’m confident and secure in it. While I expect to grow as a person, I’m certain about who I am at my core. My headspace is playful, nymph-like, and full of youthful energy. A part of me has never grown up, and I need a partner who not only understands that but is thrilled by it.

Once the relationship is secure, stable, and consistent, my LG side becomes very sexual in nature. I consider myself hypersexual and have been trained in Tantric sex, which I continuously explore. While I’m open to sexual conversations and flirting, physical intimacy won’t happen until after we establish a deep commitment through tangible actions—such as a collar of commitment, legal agreements, or cohabitation. Only then will I feel comfortable fully sharing this side of myself.

**LG with Slave Mentality in the Lifestyle:**

For me, love includes deep respect, honor, worship, reverence, and cherishing in exchange for his devotion to me. Daddy is always above me and is to be treated as such.

As for hard and soft limits, those can be discussed during courtship. While flirting and innuendo are fine along the way, I’m not a hard player—I’m not into masochism or sadism. I lean more towards the mental aspects of play. My style is what I like to call “softcore”—not in a pornographic sense, but in the way I take the core elements of discipline, domination, and submission and soften them through playfulness, curiosity, and embracing my inner child while also embodying deep surrender.

This is a lifestyle for me, not just a kink, and I need a Daddy who is as committed to the depth of this dynamic as I am.

**Polyamory and Relationship Dynamics:**

I’m polyamorous in the sense of wanting to be sexually free, but I only want one Daddy as my husband and romantic partner aka as the say in the community a primary partner. I’m bisexual and may eventually want the option of having sexual encounters with others if both of us are up and open to it and tabling it afterwards one or both of us didn't feel it, but those would be supervised and chosen by my Daddy. This is an important distinction for me, as I need my Daddy to be the one guiding those connections.

**High Communication and Micromanagement Needs:**

I’m not interested in cooking or cleaning, but I do require high levels of communication and micromanagement. I thrive on check-ins and being told where to go, what to wear, and what to eat. I need a Daddy who loves knowing where I am at all times and takes joy in guiding me. If you’re into this level of control and management—*I’m writing this for you!* LOL.

**Mental Health, Self-Work, and Relationship Growth:**

This dynamic will bring up insecurities and emotional challenges. That’s why I need a partner who takes their mental and physical health seriously. I have a therapist, and it’s important to me that you have one too, or that you’re open to starting regular therapy. I’m also looking for someone open to couples counseling. We’ll need that guidance to navigate the emotional upsets that will come with this intense connection.

Holistic health practices like meditation, tapping, and wellness routines are important to me as well. I hope you understand that emotional and mental health work will be key to sustaining our relationship long term.

**Age, Location, and Relocation:**

I’m open to men of different races and locations, including international suitors. I’m 37, and my ideal age range is 26-55, but I’m flexible depending on the connection. Relocation is on the table for the right partner, and I’m open to moving to a different state or country as long as you’ve proven that you’re serious with real-life efforts beyond words.

**Physical Characteristics and Personal Details:**

I’m a 37-year-old Black, Native American, and Mexican woman with a unique style. I have light pink hair, a curvy, feminine figure, and a love for expressing my personality through fashion. I used to be deeply into Japanese Gothic Lolita but have evolved to more colorful and experimental looks. I’ve never been married and have no children, but I’m open to kids if my partner desires them—or I’m equally happy without them.

**Weekends, Interests, and Hobbies:**

Most weekends, I’m dedicated to a blend of wellness appointments, chores, financial check-ins at coffee shops, and spiritual relaxation. I also do business-related tasks outside of my 9-to-5 job, focusing on my professional growth. However, when I break away from this routine, I enjoy attending cultural festivals, drinking boba, visiting tea houses, and exploring different cultures. I’m open to trying new activities if Daddy enjoys them.

**Practicality over Material Gifts:**

While I appreciate the typical "LG" desires like stuffies and sweets, I’m more impressed by practical matters. I value emergency preparedness (not end-of-the-world levels, but a few months’ worth of supplies), emergency savings, and access to regenerative farmed foods and wellness expenses. A new toy or pair of shoes is nice, but I’m most interested in what contributes to a higher quality of life. I’d love a Daddy who supports my career and health goals, helping me build a stable future through practical contributions.

**Hades and Persephone Energy:**

If you’re someone who gets excited by the dynamic of Hades and Persephone, where the balance between light and dark comes into play, I’m definitely speaking to you. I embody the duality of being both the bubbly, playful LG and the darker, more intense energy that craves depth, challenges, Hades and Persephone Energy:

If you’re someone who gets excited by the dynamic of Hades and Persephone, where the balance between light and dark comes into play, I’m definitely speaking to you. I embody the duality of being both the bubbly, playful LG and the darker, more intense energy that craves depth, challenges, and transformation. If you’re ready to explore both, I think we’ll connect on a deeper level.

Final Thoughts:

If this has excited you and resonates with who you are, then we might be a good match. while this is long, my continued seriousness, geekiness, philosophizing, and really fine tuning how i navigate in the lifestyle and in my relationship dynamics with ya'll men is real. haha i have expanded versions of soome of these tidbits. and if you're one of those sapiosexual thinkers turned on by thoughts and words i can dive deeper. ask and ye shall receive.

because music is important, a friend, a confident, and a guiding light, we'll end it on the energy and vibe i feel at the current stage of my dating life towards my daddy. latto's big energy. the lyrics are important: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T8GpG8C0YzA

Let’s see where this journey takes us.