My (34NB) bestie (33F) is my QPP. We are both autistic, asexual, and ENM. She is needing a supportive, affectionate Big / CG who will give her a safe place to confide her big emotions. We do not think she needs a lot of rules per se, but instead someone who will remind her to eat (I am trying to help her with that, but holding down a full time job takes up the majority of my spoons during the week), who will encourage her in her personal goals without ever making her feel ashamed, and who will be genuinely understanding of the sheer amount of work it takes to be an autistic adult in the corporate world (software engineer) and the completely valid exhaustion she feels as a result of that - who will encourage her to rest when her body needs rest.
She is a beautiful person who has helped me so much with understanding my own emotions. She has a big heart and a lot of affection to return to the right person. She is a serious gamer, but you don't have to be - she will love telling you everything about her games if you are genuinely interested in listening.
As her partner and as the person between the two of us who has better intuition about people's intentions, I will be heavily involved in screening and introducing anyone interested in taking this role in her life. My Daddy will be talking to you as well, probably in a group chat setting. We all live on discord so please be willing to make an account if you don't have one already <3
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