Hi, it’s been a couple years since I’ve dabbled in cg/l and I’m a little nervous coming back to it because it didn’t go too well for me in the past but I’m hoping I can use those experiences to avoid bad situations this time! I sort of parted ways with it after discovering some much darker kinks of mine and falling down that rabbit hole for a couple of years. While I’m open to chatting about that side of myself, I’m mostly seeking someone to have a more wholesome kink dynamic with at least 50% of the time.

Background about me; I’m polyamorous, I have 3 romantic partners currently and one play dynamic with a sadist who also helps me run my small business where I sell NSFW content on one end & educate folks on practicing sustainable kink on the other. I’m from Arizona and would love a local Daddy/Mommy but I’m pretty comfortable with long distance in the short term. Like I said, I’m nonbinary and 21, been on testosterone for 4 years and had top surgery 3 years ago; I present as more of a femboy in my vanilla life but I don’t really have a strong connection to gender in general so I’m pretty cool with any pronouns/petnames/gendered terms. I’m autistic and I do have BPD, I’m working on mitigating the symptoms of that but I know it can be a lot for people to get close to folks who struggle with emotional regulation so I figure I should probably put that out there. My hobbies include BDSM, collecting DC comics, playing DnD, and spending time with my pets & the shelter animals I work with.

As for my little space, I think im around 6, I’m pretty independent in general but I really like having a guiding figure who can help give me praise & validation or correction when needed, chat with me, help me take with self care stuff, etc. I really love superheroes and dinosaurs in my little space, I like playing with stuffed animals and action figures, I love reading books to people or having them read to me; story time is my favorite.

Ideally I guess I’m looking for someone who’s comfortable with me having a lot of masochistic kinks on the side of cg/l, or even someone who’s willing to be a mean sadist for me sometimes as well as a protective & caring Caregiver other times. I’m not sure what else I should add, feel free to reach out with any clarifying questions or if you’re interested! Thanks :)